[Rca2000]

Well..TODAY, at work this kid made SURE I knew all about his escapades this weekend. He did go out and get drunk, he did find a woman (20 Y.O.), he did have intercourse several times and is planning for more.

But he could NOT leave things at that!!

(The following is NOT meant to be derogatory in any way to women, I am paraphrasing what was discussed between this guy and another coworker. I will make it as DECENT as possible, while trying to show what was said.)

He and Chuck began talking about women in general, and this led to some VERY crude talk , in particular about "the hygiene of the female genitalia", If you get my drift. It went back and forth for a few seconds, then they stopped talking. I just responded with the same type of thing I had on Friday. ::

"I Will just repeat that I hope you finally start to grow up soon, and realize that women exist for more than your sexual pleasure for a night or two, and instead for something more lasting and meaningful."

However..he responded that he was gong to "see her again, and it looked to be something more than just a night or two(but he reminded me that the had already "done it" several times, and was planning for more.")

This is the kind of thing I have to put up with on a regular occasion from him and another younger tech there. To them. I am the WEIRD ONE, for wanting a woman as a companion and as a friend, instead of as a "conquest".

And women think I am a Neanderthal.

[snugs]

A decent woman will not think of you as a Neanderthal but a sweet guy who sees them as a member of the human race and not just a notch on the bed post.

You did the right thing and deep down they know they are out of order but they are just behaving and copying the crowd. Peer pressure and IMHO it is getting worse with each generation from how you behave to how you dress and what presents parents have to provide to stop their kids being ostracized.

[WFTR]

I wonder whether the guy is just saying this stuff to get a reaction from you. I'd be tempted to ignore him to see whether he tones it down when he realizes that it won't get a rise from you.

If you keep making references to being a Neanderthal, Max may chase you back to your cave and beat you with your own club.

[Maximus_Ridiculousness]

Okay.

Seriously. I agree with Bill. I think they're trying to get under your skin, for fun. I bet they're even making half the stuff up too just to see how you'd react.

Just ignore them, Jack.

Don't let them get to you. That's their goal.

[MountainFlower]

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no REAL woman would think that thought pattern was neandrathal (did i spell that right?)