Ok let me see ... I am now replying to your post #171 which is referring to your #128 post which states ... My son was raised by the principles laid out in Dobson's books and his radio ministry, and he has no scars...and there are many FReepers here who will attest to the same thing!
>BR> I am saying the "scars are not visible" for you doing this but they are there!
Why rely on someone other than yourself to "tell" you how to raise a child? Your morals should be the prevailing force. Not a book or a radio show.
And where do I get these 'morals' for raising my child?...from a vacuum?
No...I got them from my blueprint, the Bible...
..and wonderful pastors and teachers, including Dr.James Dobson.
We all need 'tools' to do our jobs.