Posted on 07/31/2006 11:13:59 PM PDT by claudiustg
I'm told by a source intimate with his situation tonight that Mel Gibson "was really on the verge of suicide because he felt he was helpless to alcohol and didn't know what to do about it. That's why he was driving around 90 miles an hour. This was a death wish. If that cop hadn't stopped him, this guy was going to be wrapped around a pole. This is such a bigger issue than 'Will he work again?' This is about his not wanting to live anymore. I've seen what he's gone through and what he's going through. You have to understand the disease of alcoholism. He was back in it. There's no doubt in my mind he was trying to kill himself that night." As for his anti-Semitic slurs during his DUI arrest, I'm told that Gibson doesn't remember saying them. "Why? He had alcoholic blackout syndrome. I don't know a lot about it. I've not had a lot of experience with it. He has some recollection of parts of the eveenings. But he's not denying he said those things, and if anything he's owning up to it. But nobody could verify it. Not even he or his lawyers have seen the police report yet." The insider called Gibson's situation "tragic. It's not about what people are focusing on, understand that. 'This is Mel Gibson. He can do whatever he wants. He has all money in world. He has a wonderful family. He has a wonderful wife.' They're not thinking about the real issue here: alcoholism. Nobody is talking about his alcoholism."
Maybe Mel could make amends. He could make a movie showing all the great things Jews have done through history and how Israel is set upon by the unrighteous. :^)
---So if you know you can't control yourself, why not get yourself a body guard and start taking Antabuse now and then?---
That would make it harder, but an alcoholic would find a way to still drink, believe me.
He was said to have been in development on a TV series about Holocaust survivors, according to one of the tabloid TV shows I saw last evening.
Well his life would have really sucked had he killed someone. He needs to get his act together. It's not like he doesn't have the money. 50 years old is too old to be running around acting like an idiot.
maybe you are under estimating Mel's turmoil? Why would a man with his success be an alcoholic? He must have alot of conflict.
I don't understand why some people can kick it and others can't. Part of it seems to be motivation. I've seen too much.
They say you have to hit bottom. With some they hit bottom and dig a deeper hole. Some use it to self-medicate. Some are in and out of treatment programs, and get free rent, housing, food stamps, bus passes, huge treatment costs paid for by taxpayers, and a lot of attention they don't get when they are sober. It gets frustrating trying to deal with them, and you can't really help them.
The surprising thing is that so many of them live to a ripe old age while some die of liver disease in their 40's.
After being surrounded by it most of my adult life, I still don't understand it. If the consequences aren't high enough, there's little incentive in overcoming it.
I'm surprised to find out Mel has this problem. I wish him well in overcoming it. Religion doesn't seem to help, at least on the surface.
---So if you know you can't control yourself, why not get yourself a body guard and start taking Antabuse now and then?---
"That would make it harder, but an alcoholic would find a way to still drink, believe me."
So true. As someone with a little time under her belt now, I went to almost any lengths to drink.
Either that or the Jews.
(Go Israel, Go! Slap 'Em Down Hezbullies.)
"The rich and famous don't go to AA meetings."
This is not true. I saw many in meetings - some of the most famous in Hollywood. Many actors and musicians do have private meetings, though, that aren't advertised. I worked on sets that had meetings and most studios have meetings during the day.
(Go Israel, Go! Slap 'Em Down Hezbullies.)
The Internet Movie Database will have to be updated.....
"Abstains from alcohol completely."
---maybe you are under estimating Mel's turmoil? Why would a man with his success be an alcoholic? He must have alot of conflict.---
Alcoholism is a disease. Alcohol burns the alcoholic like and acid. Success or failure, conflict, or depression are all beside the point. It is the alcohol that is killing the person. They can deal with whatever is left over once they put down the glass. Alcoholism is not for sissies.
I read on Drudge that ABC (I think) had decided not to run it. It was a four part series.
Bring out the teensiest violin.
The awful invectives uttered about Mexicans are horrifying. The funny part is that often it is legal Mexicans doing the spewing.
Mel is in my prayers tonite. As he should be with all proper-thinking folk. Crucify him if you must, but just remember that next time, it could be you -- or somebody you love -- needing help. When that happens, I hope everyone is there, ready and willing to help, in the hour of desperate need.
*That* is what being a decent human being is all about.
Suicide? How come Ted Kennedy never gets those urges? Or maybe that`s why he drove the car into the creek? But then why did he swim out? Oh yes, the bar didn`t close yet.
I said this the first time I read the account of his arrest. Have said all along, I hope he seeks some help.
The disease is real and it's a killer.
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