The ***OFFICIAL*** Weekend Singles' Thread -- Easter Weekend (April 14-16)

April 14, 2006 | Victoria Delsoul and Army Air Corps

[Victoria Delsoul]

The True Meaning of Easter

By: Paul Arinaga

There's a lot of controversy about the true meaning of Easter. Some claim that it's actually a pagan celebration in origin. Others lament that retailers, greeting card companies and television are changing Christianity's greatest feast into something with meaning "the size of a jelly bean."

In any case, the most common view about the real meaning of Easter is that it's a celebration of the resurrection of Jesus Christ, and that through this act, sin and death are conquered. Easter also can be seen as a season of joy. The time of sorrow is over. Lent's penitential forty days have passed, and the fifty days of the Easter season have begun. Winter is over and spring is in the air. In times past, it's said that priests would regale their parishioners with funny stories. Easter was truly a time to rejoice. To rejoice that Our Lord has Risen and that one day we too shall pass through death (which has lost its sting) and rise to New Life!

While I am certainly not erudite enough to give you the definitive answer on what Easter means. I believe that it offers many valuable insights about life, no matter what your religious beliefs. In fact, the Easter story is so powerful that it probably offers something even to an open-minded atheist!

One of the biggest lessons from the Easter story, I believe, is the power of forgiveness. Unfortunately, there are many misconceptions about what forgiveness actually is. In my opinion, it doesn't mean condoning the wrong that has been committed or allowing it to happen again. Moreover, the act of forgiving is not necessarily something you do for the transgressor (although it can be), although its power can transform the transgressor, too. It is something you may do for yourself.

When you can forgive, you can finally be free of the burden of guilt, anger, hatred or resentment. The healing process can begin or finally conclude. You can also let go of the person who hurt you. This makes you stronger and removes the power that person has over you. It's somehow ironic that by not forgiving we allow the person who has harmed us to continue to harm us, even if they themselves are unaware of the long-term damage that is being inflicted. Of course, ultimately, we are responsible. By taking responsibility now for our own interpretation of what happened in the past, we become much stronger - I think that's what people mean when they talk about "self-empowerment".

I'm not sure whether forgiveness is the main lesson of the Easter story or even a primary message from it. But I am sure that it is a valuable one. And I'm also certain that if we can learn how to forgive, we will be more productive - and happier - human beings.

Hi everybody. The themes for today are sports and movies:

1- Strange sports stories where you either participated or were a spectator. (Anything that seemed out of the ordinary and made you laugh.)

2- Favorite romantic films. Tell us about your most memorable tv/movie romances, or romantic moments.

3- Tell us about your favorite romantic movie dance scene: actors, actress, songs, soundtrack... which particular scene you thought was the best, famous quotes, etc.

And as you all well know, “in this world nothing is certain but death and taxes” and since it is also a tax weekend, we'd like to add some tax trivia, too.

Make sure to read this great essay regarding the history of taxes in the U.S. written by Army Air Corps. Outstanding job, AAC. Thanks.

Tax Trivia:

1. In 1913, the Sixteenth Amendment to the U. S. Constitution was passed. What did it do?

2. About how much did the U. S. government collect in Income Taxes in the year 2001?

3. Which country does NOT have an income tax?

4. Why was the first U. S. Income Tax implemented?

5. Which U. S. President was responsible for the largest Federal Income Tax cut in the 20th century?

6. Which President implemented the very first Income Tax in the United States?

7. As a percent of income, which country has the highest tax rate?

8. As of the year 2000, the U. S. Internal Revenue Code (or tax code for short) is how many pages long?

9. Who writes the Income Tax laws in the United States?

10. What does the Internal Revenue Service call their electronic method of filing Income Taxes?

Please, join us for some fun.

Your hosts for the weekend are:

Victoria Delsoul                             Army Air Corps

This weekend's Music

Sergio Mendes & Black Eyed Peas - Mas Que Nada

Shakira - Whenever, Whatever

Los Lonely Boys - Heaven

Los Lonely Boys – Heaven (Spanish Version)

Etta James – At Last

Charlie Rich – The Most Beautiful Girl

The Cardigans – Lovefool

Maroon 5 - This Love

Frank Sinatra – I've Got You Under My Skin

Smokey Robinson – Just To See Her

Mariah Carey - Emotions

Barry Manilow – Copacabana

Wayne Fontana & the Mindbenders - The Game Of Love

Andy Williams – Moon River

Louie Prima – Jump Jive And Wail

Shania Twain - You're Still The One

Smokey Robinson – Cruisin'

The Mamas & The Papas – California Dreamin'

Ricky Martin – Livin' The Vida Loca

Goo Goo Dolls – Give A Little Bit

Neil Diamond - America

Lou Bega – Mambo No. 5

Bobby Darin – Mack The Knife

Wayne Newton – Danke Schoen

Neil Diamond – I Am I Said

Bobby Darin – Beyond The Sea

The Marcels – Blue Moon

Sam Cooke – Another Saturday Night

Elvis Presley – My Way

Patti Labelle – Lady Marmalade

The Pretenders – Back On The Chain Gang

Bobby Darin - More

Joni Mitchell – Both Sides Now

Roy Orbison – Pretty Woman

Whitney Houston - I Wanna Dance With Somebody

Sheryl Crow – All I Want To Do

[carlr]

Hello Victoria,I don`t think I have ever seen a Bond movie,so I won`t be much good on this one either.

My favorite movie is King Kong the 1933 original,after that would be Tremors.
Thankfully,in some ways at least,I have never grown up.

[Victoria Delsoul]

Steve Martin? I didn't know.

What books has he written?

[Victoria Delsoul]

You won the lottery, LOL.

[Victoria Delsoul]

Didn't you watch VHS when you were younger? I did.

I saw the new King Kong during Christmas. I liked it... a bit too long, but I think it was nice.

[snugs]

I have seen most of them but I cannot answer the question

[snugs]

I watched chocolat tonight I always find that a tear jerker

[Victoria Delsoul]

That sounds familiar. Who are the main actors?

[snugs]

Judy Dench, Johnny Dep and I forget who played the younger female lead.

[Victoria Delsoul]

I don't think I've seen it. Is it a sad movie?

[carlr]

Going by the pics on your homepage I suspect I was out of school during the time that you were younger.

As for the new one,I may watch it someday.
I still remember sitting in awe watching the old one as a kid in the early 70^s,I was probably 8 or 9 years old,and had never seen anything quite like it.

[HitmanLV]

I'm not much of a Bond expert, but I'll try some others shortly!

How is everyone enjoying Easter weekend?

[snugs]

Not really it is about a lady and her daughter who arrive in French town full of prejudice and how she tries to help and free people from their prejudices.

Maybe some of the morals are not quite right but the overall message is good.

Well worth watching

[Do not dub me shapka broham]

http://search.barnesandnoble.com/booksearch/isbninquiry.asp?isbn=0786885688&z=y

[DollyCali]

If you aren't shy about showing people where you live, sign up at OUR OWN FR WEEKEND SINGLES FRAPPR site foundH-E-R-E

You can give as much or little info as you wish. I need to okay each entry (so we don't have DU joining us) SO, if you use any name OTHER THAN YOUR SCREEN NAME, please FReepmail me so I know to okay you.

I will NOT okay anyone who just signs into FR the same day.

You can post pix if you wish, you can just download them from your computer to the site.

Victoria, I wouldn't use the one you posted a short time ago!!!!

Also I need to hear from everyone. I have it now on a US map. I can go with the world map, but the US will be small. We can change back. We have Snugs & Mad Ivan (if he wants to be a part of it). There may also be additional international participants along the way. FEEDBACK please?

[Victoria Delsoul]

Great. Thanks for the link.

[DollyCali]

I liked Chocolat!

Juliette Binoche is the female lead

[Victoria Delsoul]

I should remember that, thanks Snugs. Sounds like a nice movie.

[Victoria Delsoul]

I'm doing well, thanks. Kinda busy today. Got some friends visiting earlier. I play tennis as well.

How are you doing?

[Do not dub me shapka broham]

;-)

[DollyCali]

That director does that with all his movies.. He is big on "settings" and background. I am so used to faster paced movies that a slower on like that takes a bit of getting used to. The New World was a similar movie in that respect.