What is sick is a society that has become so bamboozled by Feminist cant, that it has forgotten the whole purpose of marriage, which is to sanctify human mating. It is not rape or sexual abuse to have sex with your mate. The whole concept of the "I do's." is to consent to being mated for life.
For a thousand years, under the British and then American legal systems, there was no such thing ever recognized in the law as spousal rape. You would have been laughed out of Court, even suggesting the idea. But, of course, NOW has a deeper understanding than 30 generations of legal and ecclesiastical scholars! Or do you really believe that they do?
This lunacy started with an Oregon, I believe, statute, adopted around 1970. It is hardly something that should simply be accepted. Again, to understand the Feminist Lunacy: The Feminist Absurdity.
William Flax
It's not having sex with your wife that I have a problem with. It's having sex with her when she's sleeping, or unconscious.
Key word: with. You have sex WITH your wife when she is actively, willingly participating. This guy was simply having sex UPON his wife--she wasn't even acting as his wife in that moment. She was merely an orifice, a mass of tissues.
"sanctify human mating"
There's nothing sanctified about oral. Sanctified lovemaking is when a husband and wife look at each other eye to eye, face to face, lip to lip.
"His left arm is under my head, and his right arm embraces me."
Song of Solomon 2:6