No one wants a wedding disrupted because of silliness. I suspect something similar will happen when any of my brother, Pat's 3 daughters gets married. He was an absolute JERK to his wife, and was just astounded that she left him. How could she? Anyway, he's been ugly to her ever since, especially since our family has still remained friends with her, and include her and the girls in all we do. We even invite her to our Girl Cousin reunion! Anyway, his oldest daughter finally sat him down and told him exactly what they thought about him, and that their mother NEVER said ugly things about him in their presence. They were just smart enough to figure out for themselves what a A$$hat he'e been all these years. Stupid jerk STILL doesn't believe it's his fault. But he'll pay for that because his girls won't want to have anything to do with him unless they're forced to. A wedding would be an example.
I feel for them... at least in my family it's a generation back. I just figure we won't make a big deal out of it and hopefully they are respectable adults. And if they aren't, well then, my sisters can just forget to invite them to their weddings in a few years.
Man... I thought about calling home today and claiming Talon and I had just eloped. But that would have been too evil. Oh well.