Why Married Men Are Hot

New York Post ^ | January 23, 2006 | ELIZABETH HAYT

[conservativebabe]

sad, but true. we hold the power. (he,he,he)

[ToddBush]

You do hold the power, I will agree, but not very happily...

[SDGOP]

I don't buy this half of all marriages have infidelity. I mean i knwo its probably double digit, but 50%??

[ToddBush]

I'd bet it's around 40%, because you have to figure it those who might have only done it once and never again. Then you have to figure it what is considered "cheating." Some might think sex is it, some might think it's a kiss...

[SDGOP]

Geez laz, keep it in your pants :-p

[gopheraj]

Good night! Is that her carapace showing through her chest skin?

[SDGOP]

My pastor likes to say when you begin justifying something you've already failed.

[SDGOP]

I thought i read it somewhere being closer to 25-30%?

[Mrs. Don-o]

"...some type of infidelity occurs within half of all marriages."

I suppose this means "some married women fantasize about their long-lost college lover" or "some married men find themselves persistently attracted to Victoria's Secret online." In other words, the adulterous author is at pains to show that everybody's doin' it, which they're not, so she has to elasticize her definition into "some" "type" of "adultery."

Like that pathetic bugger Kinsey had to show that "everybody's deviant," "it's normal to be abnormal."

When you're doing something you KNOW violates ordinary standards of decency, the cheapest way to assauge your uneasy conscience is to say that you're just doing what thousands of others do, Tens of thousands. Millions. Billions and billions.

Because that way, it can't be wrong. Or it can't be that wrong. Right?

[trisham]

He's been with his wife forever, a lifestyle to which he is completely wedded, one that I had no intention of jeopardizing

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I can spot two lies right there.

[P.O.E.]

Llamas are always on the prowl

[pettifogger]

I knew many single women at the law firms I worked at who had not-so-secret, secret affairs with married senior attorneys or partners.

We've either worked at the same firms, or the situation is rampant. Sadly, I think it's the latter.

And, many of the married partners were married to their former mistresses, now trolling for number 3 . . .

[ToddBush]

You actually think a lawyer can be moral?!?!?

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!

[leda]

cheating on a spouse changes your life, and everyone
elses, forever. it will change the way everyone who
knows the cheater sees them, and even how they see
themselves. cheating is, imo, the ultimate betrayal
and forever destroys relationships that were once
sacred. that's certainly nothing to brag about.

[Condor51]

I would sooooo marry that woman.
At least for the night.

I know a lounge in the NW burbs of Chicago where she wouldn't have to pay for a cocktail for.. oh.... life.

And she definitely wouldn't have to be concerned over any lack of (in her words) "skin-to-skin" contact. Heck some of the guys I hung drank with are even single - well, according to them. ;-)

[HitmanLV]

Yea, I think it is common. For what its worth, the impression is that more than a few women realized that their fast track to the brass ring was to slut around a little bit for horny, middle aged married men. Whether they advance in the firm of marry one of them, they get the money and lifestyle they covet.

You've come a long way, baby.

On rare occasion it works the other way. At one firm I was at, a not unattractive (but far from a beauty) female partner indulged in a little bit of sexual fun with a pretty boy, pony-tailed 2nd year associate. She was married but that was the least of his problems. Seems that she was the longtime squeeze of one of the other married partners (a sleight, little man both inside and out) and he didn't care for some punk buffoon indulging in his girlfriend.

Pretty boy was placed on a major litigation case with the worst partner in the firm. He was morbidly obese and seemed to have fangs, and started his days on a diet of chocolate donuts and yoohoo. He had contempt for pretty boy from day one. Within 1/2 a year, pretty boy had so much piled on him he screwed up consistently and the fat man fired him.

Pretty boy was set up, clearly, by the other partner he cuckolded (well, not technically but you get the idea) and fat man.

This stuff happens all the time. Law firms are strange places. I'm glad I quit the law and am in business for myself now.

[PJ-Comix]

I love PJ.

BLUSH! Sorry, but I'm saving myself for Victoria Delsoul.

[1rudeboy]

My real question is why she would write this article in the first place.

Because he didn't call after saying he would?

[N. Theknow]

I would respect her in the morning just like I did good old whatshername.

[GarySpFc]

I have little doubt she has a German Shepherd too.