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Is it OK to have sex on a first date?
The Guardian (UK) ^ | 1/17/06 | Staff

Posted on 01/18/2006 8:45:41 AM PST by Millee

Three quarters of people think it is fine to sleep with someone on a first date, according to a new survey. Really? We conducted our own study ... Jodie Marsh Celebrity Big Brother contestant

I always used to think it was bad to have sex on the first date because lots of men are still in that old-fashioned frame of mind where they think that if you're too easy, you must be a slag, and therefore they will have no respect for you and won't want to see you again. But then sometimes you meet someone you're so attracted to, and it feels like love at first sight, and you know that even if you sleep with them that first night, it will make no difference because there's such strong chemistry and you're so obviously into each other. I generally think it's better in the long term to wait a while, though. On the flipside, if a man is obviously trying to get in my knickers as soon as possible, and doesn't care about what I'm like as a person, then I'm not going to want to have anything to do with him. Clearly, they're just after a shag.

Denis Rodman is trying to sleep with everyone in the Big Brother house. On that basis, I wouldn't sleep with him if he was the last man on earth. Whereas if he only liked me, and waited to get to know me, then perhaps I would give him the time of day.

James Brown former editor of Loaded magazine

I think sex on a first date is fine as long as you get a receipt.

(Excerpt) Read more at lifeandhealth.guardian.co.uk ...


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To: Millee

Oh God no! Don't hold back!!!

I can take it, I promise!


81 posted on 01/18/2006 3:02:53 PM PST by BostonianRightist ("Extremism in defense of Liberty is no vice." ~ Senator Goldwater)
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To: RockinRight

Damn, a day late AND a dollar short. LOL

Thanks for the ping anyways! ;o)

MM


82 posted on 01/19/2006 11:24:56 AM PST by motormouth
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To: BostonianRightist
I'm at Catholic University now, so there's no sex until marriage. In fact, there's no such thing as sex until marriage - it's just SIN.

"Sin lies only in hurting others unnecessarily. All other “sins” are invented nonsense." -- Robert A. Heinlein

83 posted on 01/19/2006 11:30:20 AM PST by Mr. Jeeves ("When the government is invasive, the people are wanting." -- Tao Te Ching)
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To: motormouth

No problem! :-)


84 posted on 01/19/2006 11:30:25 AM PST by RockinRight ("It's as if all the brain-damaged people in America got together and formed a voting bloc" - Coulter)
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To: Millee; PaulaB; Dashing Dasher; Jersey Republican Biker Chick; najida; teenyelliott; ...

Figures that I'd miss this one. Dash knows that I've been with my guy for over 4 years. We did "sleep" with each other on the first date, and are (unbelieveably) still head over heels for each other. Our second date was on 9/11/01...we huddled up at his place and watched the news all day.


85 posted on 01/19/2006 4:16:42 PM PST by BadKittySF
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