Is it OK to have sex on a first date?

The Guardian (UK) ^ | 1/17/06 | Staff

[Millee]

Sooo on date #2 you do what?? Go bowling????

[Millee]

ping..

[laney]

Loaded question here...:)

[TheBigB]

He: "Do you ever have sex on the first date?"

She: "No."

He: "What about the last date?" : )

[Maximus of Texas]

Need some dates first before I can respond.

[Michael Goldsberry]

[PaulaB]

I think sex on a first date is fine as long as you get a receipt

What the ?????

[timsbella]

I guess if the date goes well and you elope...

[timsbella]

Clearly she charges ;)

[Fierce Allegiance]

Depends how Loaded you are, and how Loaded she is.

[laney]

Since so many people *Hook Up* so to speak via the Internet I think after 8 months, whatever the length of Internet dating is many will have sex upon meeting, since they have been dating via cyberspace, at least from what I hear from people doing this.

I think when you met someone the Old Fashioned way is person for the first time, you waited for a time that you got to know each other..

If both met and were sauced anything is possible! LOL...

[PaulaB]

That's what I was thinking

If your hooking..wouldn't you?

I mean time is money

[Skooz]

No.

[bmwcyle]

Let's see you have not met the nutty family, her massive credit card bills, the children she poorly raised, her federal and state records, past husbands or boyfriends, her medical record, her Bill Clinton pictures, and her real personality.

[najida]

No.

Next question.

[Millee]

From the article...(written for you??) :o)

Dawn Porter writer and comedian First date sex isn't wrong, just make sure you limit your alcohol consumption so your performance is as good as it should be. If it isn't, then it won't be "first-date sex"; it will be a dismal one-night stand which will haunt you forever. Believe me, pulling away half way through to tend to a blackout isn't a good look. So by all means sleep with someone, just make sure you do it well.

[Notwithstanding]

Women who have sex on the first date are acting like tramps.

And men who do this are selfish pigs.

[mlc9852]

I think you summed it up nicely.:)

[Gay State Conservative]

Let's see you have not met the nutty family, her massive credit card bills, the children she poorly raised...

And neither of you know if you'll get a "gift that keeps on giving"...perhaps even the lethal variety.

[MarineBrat]

But then sometimes you meet someone you're so attracted to, and it feels like love at first sight, and you know that even if you sleep with them that first night, it will make no difference because there's such strong chemistry and you're so obviously into each other.

If the author knew what she was talking about, and had experience in this, why isn't the author happily married to that person to whom they were "into?"

Oh wait.... just filling up a column. :)