Since you brought up Batman Begins, I have to say that I thought it was not so great. The acting, particularly from Christian Bale, was cardboardish and there was zero attraction between him and Katie Holmes-- there was as much romantic chemistry between them as there is between Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise.
Actually it doesn't promote splitting up families at all -- It's much more a tragedy for all parties involved, including the central gay characters and their wives.
I think this movie is getting unfairly prejudged *purely* for the sake that it's about gay people. I've read the short story since the author has written other very good literature, and it's actually quite revealing as to the real experiences of some homosexuals. I honestly recommend you read it before you bash gays for the sake of being jerks to them.
I for once would like to see WAAAY more actual compassion and understanding for gay people. I'm ashamed how many of you claim to Christians and are so quick to insult without rational thoughts -- in this case, insulting gays, this story, and the film. If the film is true to the short story, and I've read that it is, then it is very much NOT some simplistic promotion of homosexuality. It explains the complete tragedy of being gay in an environment with no understanding of being gay (much like freerepublic, unfortunately.)
Batman Begins: Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz....