How do I look? please, I can take it.
Paul, like me you need to lose a few pounds. Mainly though it is truly not about how you look. A woman wants a man who is not thinking of himself all of the time (in the positive or the negative). She wants (I want) a man who is too busy thinking I am keen to feel self conscious or self hating. She wants (I want) someone who understands just what she is thinking and she can tell the same thing. Find a nice shy girl that had not been noticed and let her know she is being noticed and then look out!
gRIN.
You said you wnated the truth.