Never had the courage to sign up for any of them.I kind of have the personality of a rock and just could never imagine trying to strike up a conversation with a complete stranger,in the context of a date.
Same here.
So find a similar woman. Obviously you wouldn't be happy or comfortable around an extroverted woman, so find a woman who also has the personality of a rock. You'll get along just fine, kind of like two dachschunds.