Mom Makes Daughter Stand on Street Corner

AP ^ | 11/16/05 | SEAN MURPHY

[martin_fierro]

Donald Wertlieb, a professor of child development at the Eliot-Pearson Department of Child Development at Tufts University, warned that such punishment could do extreme emotional damage. He said rewarding positive behavior is more effective.
"The trick is to catch them being good," he said. "It sounds like this mother has not had a chance to catch her child being good or is so upset over seeing her be bad, that's where the focus is."

Mom knows her daughter better than you, Perfesser. STFU.

[Behind Liberal Lines]

Donald Wertlieb, a professor of child development at the Eliot-Pearson Department of Child Development at Tufts University, warned that such punishment could do extreme emotional damage. He said rewarding positive behavior is more effective. "The trick is to catch them being good," he said. "It sounds like this mother has not had a chance to catch her child being good or is so upset over seeing her be bad, that's where the focus is."

Of all the crappy parents in Ithaca (City of Evil), and there are plenty, I think the worst are invariably the ones who turn out to be in the child development field.

[conservativewasp]

"Donald Wertlieb, a professor of child development at the Eliot-Pearson Department of Child Development at Tufts University, warned that such punishment could do extreme emotional damage."

FU!

[rdb3]

In fact, Henderson has seen a turnaround in her daughter's behavior in the past week and a half. But the punishment prompted letters and calls to talk radio from people either praising the woman or blasting her for publicly humiliating her daughter.

I won't tell you all what I've heard, just what I know. Public humiliation works!

[motormouth]

"But the report was forwarded to the state Department of Human Services. "


Oh, Please, DHS cant see "true" abuse when its staring them in the face, nevermind, a possible "psychological" abuse case. There are children in their system that they cant seem to help, or protect, but they are willing to rush to the aide of a girl whose mother may have not handled the situation perfectly, but at least cared enough to try something... Arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!

MM

[trisham]

While Henderson stood next to her daughter at the intersection, a passing motorist called police with a report of psychological abuse, and an Oklahoma City police officer took a report

***************

The number of people who are eager to interfere in the lives of others appears to be limitless.

[colorcountry]

It's called "tough love." Try it, it works, professor.....

[PaulaB]

I agree with this mother.
Good for her for showing her daughter
her rebellion will get her squat!!!! My dad always told me

"Michelle..no one is going to support you
and your ideas..so get your butt out there
and make something of yourself so you don't
have to listen to me lecture you the rest of your life"

It worked

Thanks Dad for kicking my butt!!!!

[najida]

Dang....

I'm stayin' the eff away from this thread. ;)

[PaulaB]

I know your side and also see your point


;)

[The_Victor]

Mom knows her daughter better than you, Perfesser.

The thing about it too, is that after the punishment, you do have something positive to focus on (as the professor feels is so important), and you can praise the child for the turnaround.

Professor of Child Development my arse.

[codyjacksmom]

Way to go to the mom. At first I thought, from the headline, that she was going to show her daughter what it's like to be a hooker. The work for food sign is much better! LOL

[Paul C. Jesup]

Tasha Henderson got tired of her 14-year-old daughter's poor grades, her chronic lateness to class and her talking back to her teachers, so she decided to teach the girl a lesson.She made Coretha stand at a busy Oklahoma City intersection Nov. 4 with a cardboard sign that read: "I don't do my homework and I act up in school, so my parents are preparing me for my future. Will work for food."

This idea could seriously backfire and lead the girl to a life of prostitution.

[yellowdoghunter]

Proud Oklahoma ping! Kudos to this mother!

[twin2]

too funny ping!

[Clemenza]

Also known as "The Scarlet Letter Treatment":

[WhyisaTexasgirlinPA]

She already has been forced by her parents to give up basketball and track because of slipping grades,

I approve of the parents decision to pull her out of sports until the grades come up - kudos to them - however, wouldn't the school have suspended her from playing until the grades were brought up? Anything below a C means a suspension doesn't it?

[rdb3]

...however, wouldn't the school have suspended her from playing until the grades were brought up? Anything below a C means a suspension doesn't it?

If that's how Oklahoma's schools work. I know here in Texas that grades must be maintained, or else (don't pass, don't play).