I read, I understood completely from the first post! I guess it helps that it was my friend who told me that. The whole thing is I would occasionally buy one lottery ticket, I said "if God wants me to win the lottery, I'll do it on one ticket". She said "If God wants me to win, I'll find a ticket laying on the sidewalk". I can certainly see the connection to "I wonder if God wants me to ever marry" and "I guess if he does, you'll find your future wife laying on the sidewalk".
I see it because I was "there". Paul probably was involved in a different conversation on the thread.
PS, I am not here having logged off an hour ago to go to bed. :) Just checking back.
Hey Paul, thought I pinged you also to above post but apparently I goofed. Your name was mentioned, here's your courtesy ping :).