I can go first if you would like.
Here goes... this one guy was a rather prominent atty in San Diego and we went to this really expensive restaurant for dinner... and he got plastered. On the way home in the car I thought I was going to buy it because he was driving 85 or faster, this was the speed limit was 55, and all over the road. I turned him down after that.
Ouch! Glad you turned down that guy! He knowingly endangered your life by doing that.