For intellectual types, I'd want "nano skills" (if that's word), I'd want some who was intelligent and who could have a good, pleasant and intellectually stimulating conversation and most important, could make me laugh with witty and lighthearted banter!
I just remember that old saying "laugh and the world laughs with you, weep and you weep alone, for this sad old earth needs plenty of mirth, but has troubles enough of it's own".
I can have such a conversation but I do not know the first thing about humor lol.
It's just good to know that D-Qwon has a whole series of videos available for people who want to develop skills.