[PaulaB]

Here is my opnion on your thinking

I am glad you have strong self esteem but one day soon your going to have swallow a big dose of "get over yourself"
Yes men should be confident,successful,smart (etc)... but along with this they should be caring, honest, loving (etc)
the problem with your theory is...you think you have the goods to deliver a woman dreams to her when after you unwrap it its just a pile of male pigness centered around your religion which is the religion of "me"....I don't think you'll ever find someone you'll love more than you love yourself...

[Dashing Dasher]

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[HitmanLV]

Yes men should be confident,successful,smart (etc)... but along with this they should be caring, honest, loving (etc)I think this is the problem.

I agree with what you said and never seriously suggested otherwise. Somehow, you may have filtered my comments through a strange prism (how you got that prism, I can't say) and it made you think that I feel the two sets of qualities you mentioned are mutually exclusive (or at the very least, inconsistent).

Clearly there are not mutually exclusive nor inconsistent.

The real issue is, what made you feel they were?