[HitmanLV]

Yes men should be confident,successful,smart (etc)... but along with this they should be caring, honest, loving (etc)I think this is the problem.

I agree with what you said and never seriously suggested otherwise. Somehow, you may have filtered my comments through a strange prism (how you got that prism, I can't say) and it made you think that I feel the two sets of qualities you mentioned are mutually exclusive (or at the very least, inconsistent).

Clearly there are not mutually exclusive nor inconsistent.

The real issue is, what made you feel they were?

[PaulaB]

Are you trying to psychoanalyze me?

Your postings lead me to believe that you care more for your mental superiority
than any female feeling that a woman in your presence could have...

I like your posts BTW..keeps my teeth sharp