Posted on 10/14/2005 5:59:59 PM PDT by scott7278
"We're so glad to see so many of you lovely people here tonight...
...We would especially like to welcome all the representatives of Illinois' law enforcement community who have chosen to join us here at the Place Hotel Ballroom at this time. We certainly hope you all enjoy the show and remember people that no matter who you are and what you do to live, thrive and survive, there's still some things that make us all the same...
...You, me, them, everybody..."
"…You know people, when you do find that special somebody, you gotta hold that man, hold that woman, love him, please him, squeeze her, please her, signify your feelings with every gentle caress…because it’s so important to have that special somebody to hold, to kiss, to miss, to squeeze, and please…"
None of what, P?
"Better than just telling him 'you get what you deserve'."
That's the motto of my family. "That's what you get!" I've never gone to them with any of my problems, and I'm not exactly helpful if they ever have any.
Well When I did the girl would look at me like "what is your problem?" and not say anything. Other times the girl would not even look at me.
My parents was like that when I was growing up. I still feel bitterness toward them.
Well, warm and faithful is a wonderful way to start. Paul, where are you going when you meet young women? Are you going to a place that interests you? Is it somewhere where you feel comfortable? That is where you should start. Then you would have something in common to discuss.
Being stolen away by blondes. Personally, I prefer brunettes.
My parents aren't like that, but the rest of my family is.
Uncle says, "I hurt my leg outside."
Aunt says, "That's what you get, you idiot! You shouldn't have been doing this or that in the first place!"
Well never a specific place. I but a lot of times in the park. There are no clubs or bars that interest me in this boring city.
You are more mature now, P. Just try to keep from getting too involved until you really know the girl. Don't just put your heart out there for the taking. That is one lesson that I have got to learn myself.
With me, it's a scared look. Big eyes, head goes back. Look of, "I'm going to turn and run any second now if he makes a move."
My favorite is Brunettes too but will take any.
No one has defined "strange" for me yet. Therefore, I can't say anything strange.
Dang. Not all of my fanmiliy is like that but a lot of them are.
"Just try to keep from getting too involved until you really know the girl."
Yeah, in hindsight, it's not really a good idea to fall head-over-heels and be convinced you've found the one when you just briefly met her over one weekend.
I was young and idealistic in my early teen years.
I try hard but I do not think there is anything strange about me lol. Well two of my favorite movies are Elizabeth and Dangerous Beauty, but I don't think that qualifies lol.
Say something like, "It's time to go sprinkle parmesian cheese in my hair, while I sing about gators giving gifts to aardvarks. Look out for chainsaw weasels fighting talking prunes."
Then I will think you are strange. I will send you a picture of myself giving a strange look into the camera.
My cousin's father, and sister, are like that.
He did not want us to get involved, or even talk to my cousin about this. his attitude is "they have to work this out, for themselves".
And his sister, had said nice things about me, recently, about how I talk too much, talk about stupid things,that no woman would have me, and that I am a boring person to be around.(Not to me, of course, but to my sister.) And to think, that I am usually the one who takes up for her.(She does NOT know about the things I have spoken about here, she would blame me for the whole thing).
She is divorced, too. and now, regrets it.
The only people who deserve what they get are those who have taken advantage of another and carelessly crushed their feelings and self esteem.
You are a good person to help your cousin even though you are hurting, too.
Well, what did you say to bring on that kind of look? Also, don't approach a woman who does not give out the vibes that she is approachable.
Now you will want me to tell you what that means. If she is involved in a deep discussion with friends, it is not a good time to come over and introduce yourself. Wait for a lag in the conversation, see if she is casually looking around, and then try to make eye contact. If she makes eye contact, smile and go over and say hi.
It's times like this I'm glad I'm an only child.
My Aunt and Uncle almost divorced about 8 years ago. They decided not to. They never really patched things up. Their marriage is interesting: they don't hate each other, or love each other. They just live in mutual tolerance. I think they still fight, though.
I don't really go to anyone with my problems. I just try to handle them myself. Sometimes I'm in over my head.
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