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Posted on 04/21/2005 11:30:56 AM PDT by pissant
#1. Recognize that men's and women's views of each other and of themselves have been shaped by sexist conditioning in our society.
#2. Understand that these sexist views will persist and cloud both sexes' thinking about both men and women.
#3. Always remember the true nature of ALL women and ALL men: strong, loving, intelligent, zestful, cooperative, assertive, confident and tender. If you can't see everyone that way then it is due to the sexist conditioning (and other hurts) placed upon you. If you had never received this conditioning, then you could easily see everyone's inherent nature all the time. If any person never received any type of conditioning, then they would always act on these inherent qualities all the time.
#4. Educate yourself on the ways that women have been oppressed. Ask the women in your life what the sexism is like in their life. It is important for women to get to talk about it with you and important for you to hear the hardships of being a woman in this society.
#5. Share the work that has traditionally been considered "women's work". This is largely unpaid work and is not considered as important as "men's work".
#6. Challenge the notion to both men and women that boys are by nature aggressive and violent. Stand firm that it is only hard conditioning that makes anyone act this way. Stand firm that boys are just like girls with the whole range of emotions, compassion, and need for tenderness.
#7. Eliminate homophobia (the fear of being close to someone of the same gender as oneself) with the men in your life. Homophobia perpetuates confusion that closeness and sex are the same thing (they are not the same). It prevents men from having close relationships with each other. Taking turns listening to each other about the hardships we've had being men is a great step in starting closer friendships. Go meet lots of men!
#8. Encourage men (including yourself) to feel and express all natural feelings. Men's largest conditioning comes from being forced to act like we have no feelings (e.g. "Big boys don't cry", "You're acting like a girl/sissy"). This conditioning is what eventually makes men take on all of the inhuman roles we are expected to play in society.
#9. Support women's leadership. One crucial area to eliminating sexism is challenging the notion that men are natural leaders and women are natural followers. This can be confusing for men. But considering all the sexist stereotypes we've been taught about women, this is understandable. That is why remembering women's inherent nature (see #3) and taking turns listening with other men about how we've been conditioned is so important in moving forward and supporting women's leadership.
#10. Model non-sexist behavior everywhere. Tell and show men and women that eliminating sexism is a primary focus in your life. The presence of sexism in society is hurtful to everyone, not just women. It's elimination will enhance every human being's life.
Men Against Racism & Sexism - E-MAIL: mars@ccsi.com - Phone-Fax: 512-326--9686
'Scuse me while I go hurl.....
Sure will. I'll get right on this...as soon as the game's over.
feminist PING
That sounds exactly like what the scoutmaster told me when he lured me into his sleeping bag and showed me that "special hug".
Owl_Eagle
(If what I just wrote makes you sad or angry,
All that's great....but somehow, the guy is going to marry the one with the biggest boobs.
I've mastered bewilderment, despair, and guilt... are there others?
just be sure to clean the toilet seat after you hurl! ANd put it back down, for Pete's sake!
It was just his pocket knife, right?
you need to cry more...and not because your favorite team lost!
Don't post that pic. It gets Teenyelliott excited
lol
I have a better idea, Ship all of the Feminazi's to Saudi Arabia.
Problem solved :)
is that your pic?
the author is supposedly a man. But I gotta wonder...
Educate yourself on the ways that women have been oppressed. Ask the women in your life what the sexism is like in their life. It is important for women to get to talk about it with you and important for you to hear the hardships of being a woman in this society.
If Mr. Ex (or any other man of my acquantiance, actually) did something like this, I'd start laughing hysterically. What a bunch of tripe! These feminists really need to get over themselves.
Wish I could think of something funny to say about this, but...
How can a man be any of these things if he's worrying about saying something "sexist"? Somehow, I don't think the authors really want men to be "strong" and "assertive". ;)
the author is supposedly a man. But I gotta wonder...
I think the term is metrosexual... it's definately NOT a man..
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