I drove a college friend to get an abortion because she had no one else to turn to. I tried talking her out of it but the choice was hers. I still live with that ride to the clinic...
Why me? I hadn't known her long and I didn't want to go with her.
Whatever it was I said - and I think it was more about infection (my mother was BIG on disease!) - talked her out of it.
She married the father and a couple of years later, I met their little tyke, a happy toddler. Quite a feeling, seeing this child and remembering how close it came to never being.