You understand the situation exactly. I agree re your kitties, and my sympathy for your loss.
Well, thanks Slings. We are a family of animal lovers, although we do not go over the top into thinking they are people, or our children. Of course, if I bump into them, I always apologize. I have to laugh at myself saying sorry to Sophie who once caused a broken toe when I tried not to disturb her. I look forward to more stories of you and Zia.