[ConservativeMan55]

Somebody throw me a bone!

[Keith in Iowa]

Get used to it...

Every time I think I've met Ms. Right, turns out her first name is "Always"...

[Howlin]

Stop worrying about it. In two years, you'll look back on this and laugh.


And there is NOTHING wrong with you!

[xJones]

Dude, with tommorrow being your 22th birthday, what are you doing on the internet? And happy birthday, but you're going to have to work on it.:)

[Joe 6-pack]

Are you logged in?

[Seeking the truth]

Go to your nearest food store and wander up & down the aisles.

When you see something that you like, just start talking to her.

It works.

That's why I was a batchelor til I was 34!

[Dr.Deth]

Say hello to your new best friends:

Welcome to the club.

[cmsgop]

Work on your Humor skills, Get a Haircut and DAMMIT BE CONFIDENT!!!!!!

And above All don't try so hard, be relaxed and have fun with it....

[EllaMinnow]

22? You're still very young, you know!

I'm old enough to be your mother - barely! - and I'm going to tell you that I've never known anyone in my life who didn't find love. They may have messed it up after they found it, but I trust that you won't lose it after you find it.

It will come, and knock you for a loop, when you least expect it.

[isom35]

think of it this way, you have not yet met your future ex-wife :) but when you do meet her, just hope she looks like Rebecca Gomez.

[quidnunc]

ConservativeMan55 wrote: So I'm sitting here alone. Typing a shameless vanity. Trying to pass the time until tommorow.

I think I see a big part of your problem.

[XXXXX88XXXXX]

My all time best pick up line: "So tell me, darlin', just how big is your boyfriend?"

If the answer was "I'm not married," or "I got no boyfriend" or "not all that big," ... I knew I had a shot.

[July 4th]

I'm 24. I tried the girlfriend thing for a little while. She just helped me to realize how good I feel when I'm not seeing anyone. I'll try again someday - but right now I'm happy, and I'm just trying to graduate from law school.

[Vision]

Follow your instincts and understand that this is supposed to be fun.

Why not try to do something lighter then writing about politics.

[gg188]

Save your money. You will need it to get a wife or girlfriend when you are 50 or so.

[RedWing9]

Your TWENTY-TWO!!! Give your concern a rest. I got married at 34! And that was after I spent 5 years with a woman/girl between 21-25... R-E-L-A-X!

[Miss Marple]

Advice for meeting a girl:

Get involved in a large church, particularly one which has a singles group.
Join clubs, including reading groups, social volunteer organizations, and political groups.
Talk to ladies at the grocery store.
Ask friends to fix you up.
Get a part time job at a place which has a lot of young people (Home Depot, Target, library, Old Navy, etc.).

I hope this helps!!!

[cyborg]

Funny I found myself wondering the same thing about guys: I'm 30, single, never had children, had one boyfriend, conservative and I'm not ugly.

[4integrity]

Happy Birthday a bit early. Go to a book store, visit the political section and if there's someone interesting, just chat. Do you belong to a local political club? Check internet for young Republicans(?)club.

[SaveTheChief]

Wow.

Dude, grow up and take charge of your life. Whining about not having a woman isn't going to help ANYTHING. You're too young to be worried about this anyway. You also need to realize that though a woman can be a great companion and friend, they often can complicate your life.

You may wish to focus your energies on other activities. Here are a few suggestions: Exercise; Take up a musical instrument; Get a dog; Golf; Start doing some online gaming with friends; Become active in church; Get out of the house.

Can you take responsibility for yourself or shall we form a special-interest group to lobby Congress for special legislation?