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Yes, you are right about a casual wedding being more fun for everyone ... but this is your day! You should have the number of attendants you want... That will not affect the amount of fun everyone has. The number of attendants is not an issue. I may be wrong but instead of choosing to have one attendant for that reason it seems to me that because Sonya is the one long term friend that you talk about counting on all the time... that would be more the reason to have just her. If there is some other old friend then have her too!

Matter of fact, this G.R.I.T.S even determined that she would pick and choose what "rules" suited her. I had 3 attendants. Dennis had only 2. Because that was the number of friends we each wanted. You two do what is right for you, just keeping it casual insures the enjoyment of us guests!

Yep.... Sonya has been there with me since we wuz little. If I were to ask anyone else, it would be you and Ruthy.... The Hobbit Hole was more involved in ecurbh and I meeting and getting together than anyone else! My friend Tiffney had been around a long time too, and Lisa who freaked out about Sonya's wedding (would be fun just to stress her out again!).... but I just think it will be simplest to keep the wedding party smaller than the number of guests! LOL

I am just glad to have you guys there with us.