[HairOfTheDog]

Yep.... Sonya has been there with me since we wuz little. If I were to ask anyone else, it would be you and Ruthy.... The Hobbit Hole was more involved in ecurbh and I meeting and getting together than anyone else! My friend Tiffney had been around a long time too, and Lisa who freaked out about Sonya's wedding (would be fun just to stress her out again!).... but I just think it will be simplest to keep the wedding party smaller than the number of guests! LOL

I am just glad to have you guys there with us.

[Wneighbor]

See... it's right... Sonya has been with you through *everything* in your life. I dunno. For you that just *sounds* right! :-)

Because you have determined that you want a fun wedding for all involved it will be that way. IMO - it is the formal stuff or the rigidness of some wanting things perfect that make the guests uncomfortable. You are not of that mind so I don't think the choices you'd make - no matter what - would be *not* fun.

Most people just don't *enjoy* the ceremonial formality of stuff. Can't see that happening here! :-D