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A bridesmaid dress like that one. The site has a lot of matching sets. Whatever she orders, we'll order the same pattern for ecurbh's best man.

We are only having one attendant each.... I hope everyone enjoys going more if they don't have to participate and can just have fun.

Am I right?

Yes, you are right about a casual wedding being more fun for everyone ... but this is your day! You should have the number of attendants you want... That will not affect the amount of fun everyone has. The number of attendants is not an issue. I may be wrong but instead of choosing to have one attendant for that reason it seems to me that because Sonya is the one long term friend that you talk about counting on all the time... that would be more the reason to have just her. If there is some other old friend then have her too!

Matter of fact, this G.R.I.T.S even determined that she would pick and choose what "rules" suited her. I had 3 attendants. Dennis had only 2. Because that was the number of friends we each wanted. You two do what is right for you, just keeping it casual insures the enjoyment of us guests!