[lysie]

Sometimes I think we have done way too much for mil...leaving her incapable of doing for herself or not wanting to do for herself.

I tell my kids to smack me side the head if I get like that. I don't see it happening. I'm far too independent.

[Neets]

Yup, exactly. That is one of the downfalls of living here with Mom.

She is especially hard on the kids when I am not home...make her pour her coffee, get the mail, fix her lunch, etc.

I tell her when I am home, I cook dinner. Other meals, you are on your own.

Her breathing difficulties are because of her weight, and if she would walk around just doing daily routine things, her breathing wouldn't be so labored.

My sister that came by on Sat was shocked to see how bad Mom has gotten since just Sept.