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I Regret Being A Slut
Bridget Phetasy Substack ^ | 17 Aug 2022 | Bridget Phetasy

Posted on 08/17/2022 11:56:17 AM PDT by Rummyfan

I know regretting most of my sexual encounters is not something a sex-positive feminist who used to write a column for Playboy is supposed to admit. And for years, I didn’t. Let me be clear, being a “slut” and sleeping with a lot of men is not the only behavior I regret. Even more damaging was what I told myself in order to justify the fact that I was disposable to these men: I told myself I didn’t care.

I didn’t care when a man ghosted me. I didn’t care when he left in the middle of the night or hinted that he wanted me to leave. The walks of shame. The blackouts. The anxiety.

The lie I told myself for decades was: I’m not in pain—I’m empowered.

Looking back, it isn’t a surprise that I lied to myself. Because from a young age, sex was something I was lied to about.

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The Culture was right there to pick me up and dust me off. I doubled down on being a proud slut and internalized the biggest and most damaging lie: that loveless sex is empowering. I basked in the girl-power glow of that delusion for decades, weaponizing my sexuality while convincing myself I was full of the divine feminine.

I was full of shit….

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TOPICS: Health/Medicine; Miscellaneous; Society; Weird Stuff
KEYWORDS: dating; hoors; mgtow; phetasy; pua; ransomnote; redpill; sloots; slutwalk; women
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At least she learned something.
1 posted on 08/17/2022 11:56:17 AM PDT by Rummyfan
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To: Rummyfan

Years ago I knew a lot of sluts. I liked ‘em!


2 posted on 08/17/2022 11:57:39 AM PDT by albie
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To: Rummyfan

Hot dog…hallway.

Enjoy your cats and boxed wine.


3 posted on 08/17/2022 11:57:51 AM PDT by EEGator
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To: albie

For an hour…


4 posted on 08/17/2022 12:00:29 PM PDT by EEGator
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To: Rummyfan

She has real power now.

The Truth!


5 posted on 08/17/2022 12:01:17 PM PDT by Hostage (Article V)
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To: Rummyfan
I Regret Being A Slut

At first I thought this was about Kommie-La, but foolish me, dems NEVER own up to mistakes.

6 posted on 08/17/2022 12:01:25 PM PDT by The Sons of Liberty (Ultra MAGA!)
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To: EEGator

Hey, I have cats and drink box wine........what are you tryin’ to say!!??

😁


7 posted on 08/17/2022 12:01:36 PM PDT by V_TWIN (America...so great even the people that hate it refuse to leave)
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To: Rummyfan

Slut? It’s always something. Forgiven.
DemocRAT? Consider suppuku. We loathe and despise you, and fart in your general direction.


8 posted on 08/17/2022 12:02:29 PM PDT by Da Coyote
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To: Rummyfan

Gee, the liberals and the Marxists lied to her and she bought it.

Sucks to be her but at least she’s figuring out that the whole secular liberal feminist movement is a lie.


9 posted on 08/17/2022 12:03:56 PM PDT by MercyFlush (☭☭☭ Soviet Russia must be destroyed. ☭☭☭)
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To: Rummyfan

Not guilty.


10 posted on 08/17/2022 12:04:23 PM PDT by Bruce Campbells Chin
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To: Rummyfan

I wish every college aged woman would read this. Because it is the truth.


11 posted on 08/17/2022 12:05:06 PM PDT by Hildy
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To: V_TWIN

LOL, you don’t count…


12 posted on 08/17/2022 12:05:17 PM PDT by EEGator
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To: Bruce Campbells Chin

She’s got nude pics online if you so desire.


13 posted on 08/17/2022 12:05:48 PM PDT by EEGator
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To: Hildy

Most college girls I know are easily as bad as guys.


14 posted on 08/17/2022 12:06:24 PM PDT by EEGator
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At 43, she is married to her second husband and has a daughter. She found a more wholesome path in life. She should count her blessings that she woke up before the cats and boxed wind stage.


15 posted on 08/17/2022 12:06:48 PM PDT by ProtectOurFreedom (“May your neighbors respect you, trouble neglect you, angels protect you and heaven accept you”)
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To: albie
Years ago I knew a lot of sluts. I liked ‘em!

So, how many children did all of those sexual encounters produce?

16 posted on 08/17/2022 12:08:17 PM PDT by ytrebil
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To: ProtectOurFreedom

What man marries a slut with nude pics online?
A beta cuck, that’s who.


17 posted on 08/17/2022 12:09:04 PM PDT by EEGator
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To: Rummyfan

I’m tired of people blaming their “strict Catholic upbringing” for turning them in female sluts and male whores.

Its a cheap slogan and stupid leftist trope. People use it like a reflex, because it sounds like clever psychobabble

And its completely false.

I don’t know what the people around her told her (she gave a hint) but Catholic doctrine is pretty simple - and I too heard it all the time as a young adult: Sex is reserved for married couples who love each other and have declared so before God. Anything less cheapens it and cheapens you.

People don’t like to be told they need to take responsibility for their actions.


18 posted on 08/17/2022 12:09:51 PM PDT by PGR88
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We have rules!!!..without them, we live with the animals!


19 posted on 08/17/2022 12:10:13 PM PDT by Erik Latranyi (We are being manipulated by forces that most do not see)
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To: Rummyfan
File under, NSS. How many women have ruined their lives because of hoes like that? How many children been killed and how many young children, especially boys grew up with out a father? Society, especially the black community have been devastated by this behavior. At least now the truth comes out. And for the men who use whores, F U for contributing to the downfall of society and washing your hands of it!
20 posted on 08/17/2022 12:10:42 PM PDT by dragonblustar (Romans 12:12)
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