Posted on 04/12/2021 5:23:48 PM PDT by Shadylake
If he’s facing homelessness or something I’d have to take him in my place. Least desirable option.
My prayers are with you all.
Life is always fun, isn’t it? If only people weren’t so shitty to one another. Wishing you both the best possible outcome.
Going to bed, thanks again. I’ll check tomorrow and address anymore that might come. Really is nice of you all.
Father we ask that you watch over Shadylakes father. A divorce at that age is difficult and it follows a very hard year. Help him understand what is happening and why, allow him to gain peace, and help him live the rest of his life in Your grace.
Will definitely pray for him. I went through it myself two years ago and I never recovered. Stay as close to him as you can. What a lot of people don’t realize is how lonely you can get when this happens to you not by your choice.
I always said I'd rather live alone, and be happy, than live with someone and be totally miserable. I got rid of my one and only philandering husband back in 1979, and raised my two sons alone. I was 32 at the time. Never married again, and never lived with anyone. My ex moved out-of-State about 30 years ago, and has never bothered with the only two sons he ever had. He has no idea his youngest son went through cancer surgery in 2019. Being married to him was a learning experience, one I never wanted to repeat again, and I didn't. If I hadn't divorced him, I never would have gone to college, had the career I did, or been able to do all the wonderful things the Lord has allowed me to do, one of which was being able to retire in 2003.
I wish you and your Dad the best. Having this crap happen to you when you're in your 70's, makes it that much harder to deal with.
He asks for prayers, you offer prayers, and then recommend he pick up a
whore the age of a grandchild? Honestly.
Well almost never one sided. But to defend perhaps a handful of ill used people on this site, sometimes it is. Sometimes it is really all one person’s fault.
Not speaking personally, never divorced. I just know a few true victims.
He should be prepared to handle false accusations of crimes including physical abuse.
At least he will no longer be living in such a toxic environment. He might be able to sleep better.
Prayers up.
My mom and dad divorced when I was ten. I could never understand why so much hate.
Prayers for you father to rebound.
GEEZE hard to believe someone in their 70’s wanting a divorce why would you want to be alone at that age?? Is his wife a lot younger than he is??? I hope your dad finds strength hard situation at that age!!
Prayer for your Family and Love Ones.
In Jesus’ Name I Pray. Amen.
Prayers up for your Daddy.
Hopefully he will have family and friends to help ease the sting of divorce. My deepest prayers.
May I ask your Dad’s name?
Well almost never one sided. But to defend perhaps a handful of ill used people on this site, sometimes it is. Sometimes it is really all one person’s fault.
Not speaking personally, never divorced. I just know a few true victims.
Prayers offered.
No, they’re about the same age. They’ve been together about 20 years. I honestly never got along with her, she always seemed very calculating to me. It’s a shock to be out of the blue like this after she’s been having health problems, but not I’m not really that surprised in a way.
This is his second time, he got taken for a major ride with my mother. I warned him not to get walked over, but I dunno if he’s got any fight left. I’ll recommend a lawyer next chance I get. His attitude already is ‘I didn’t come into this with much so I won’t get much’.
My mom sure had the opposite viewpoint with back then and took him to the cleaners.
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