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Heartwarming and hair-raising: What it's like to wear a hijab
The University of New Mexico's Daily Lobo ^ | February 3, 2017 | Celia Raney

Posted on 02/03/2017 12:08:59 AM PST by 2ndDivisionVet

One Daily Lobo reporter's experience on World Hijab Day

I have walked home from campus 92 times since enrolling at UNM. Only once was I so hyper-aware of my appearance that I held tight to the pepper spray on my keychain.

Oh, I forgot to mention: It was also the first time I tried on a hijab.

In honor of World Hijab Day, a group of Muslim women gathered outside the UNM Bookstore late Wednesday afternoon. The event was organized by Power Through Peace and the UNM Muslim Student Association, with help from local activist Shakir Farid Abdullah.

Abdullah also assisted in the organization of the march against President Donald Trump’s so called “Muslim Ban” at the Albuquerque International Sunport last Sunday.

Started in 2013 by Nazma Khan — a Muslim woman living New York — World Hijab day seeks to eliminate the judgement and discrimination associated with wearing a hijab.

“We just came out today to show people the differences in hijabs, answer questions and kind of do away with the stereotypes of how Muslim women are oppressed,” said MSA President Serene Akkad.

Hoping that Wednesday’s event would be educational, Akkad also stated that Muslim women are not forced to wear a hijab, and her personal goal for the event was to allow people to see that.

The groups wanted to sponsor a gathering where anyone could “come and talk to us and not be so afraid,” added UNM Valencia freshman Autumn Valdez.

In light of recent political events, the most common concern was whether or not Muslim women felt safe wearing their hijabs in public.

“I do feel less safe — my mother has told me to take off my scarf many times,” Valdez said.

There were even a few men who participated in the event, none too shy to share their unease.

“As a man, it’s definitely really interesting, because you see so much of the struggle from other people.” UNM alumnus Dayton Schoen said.

When I first donned a hijab at Wednesday’s event, I felt entirely safe. Surrounded by other men, women and children all wearing the same thing, it was hard not to.

Patrons “oohed” and “ahhed” over the multitude of hijabs out on display, and once they had been skilfully wrapped atop your head, you couldn’t help but stand in awe.

While wearing the hijab, I didn’t feel as though I was sporting a garment, but rather gaining a unique insight into an equally unique culture.

I stood around and confabulated for over an hour with the nearly 100 event attendees, and felt nothing but honor and intrigue.

After the crowd began to thin and the temperature started to drop, I decided that 1) I was sure I had enough information to write this piece, and 2) my toes were going to fall off if I didn’t get inside and warm up.

Before leaving, I was told to keep the hijab as a way to remember the experience and understand the value in the decision Muslim women make every day.

Still wearing my gift, I started to make my way home. As I left the comforting swarm of hijab-adorned heads, I became all too aware of the sideways glances I was receiving.

Walking alone with the sun quickly setting, I frantically dug my keys out of my backpack and jammed them into my jacket pocket.

Hurrying across campus, I gratefully felt the familiar curve of the grip on my pepper spray.

I’ve never before felt the need to carry any sort of self defense item around, and while I wasn’t clutching the spray or jumping at the rustling of leaves, having it in my pocket was a significant comfort.

Once safely inside my apartment, I took a minute to digest everything I had just experienced.

I went from feeling welcomed and honored to learn about a culture that faces so many difficulties, to feeling threatened for the same reason.

Earlier that same evening, UNM student Michelle Van Wart confessed she was interested in Islam, but had not converted yet because, “It’s really hard.”

“You know, because of the dangers.”

Though many of the women I talked to at Wednesday’s event said they generally felt safer and more respected when wearing a hijab, I can now understand why some Muslim women are afraid to express their religion in America today.

Knowing this, I anticipate I will pay more attention to the Muslim women around me, and if I happen to see someone being discriminated against, to do something.

“One of the easiest ways to diffuse a situation is just to sit down next to the person,” said Havah Shah, a Muslim woman and one of the event's organizers.

Shah encouraged anyone looking for ways to help and get involved to just sit or stand beside anyone you see experiencing discrimination and to take the conversation away from the instigator.

If you are looking to make a difference, she encourages you to simply ask, “How are you doing? How’s the weather today? Are you going to class?”

Even something as simple as, “Would you like me to walk with you?”


TOPICS: Chit/Chat; Education; Politics; Religion
KEYWORDS: academicbias; celiaraney; college; hysteria; islam; islamicimperialism; lifeamongthekufir; misogyny; muslims; newmexico; paranoia; sharialaw
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No Muslim woman has ever been forced to wear a hajib. That is an infidel lie!

1 posted on 02/03/2017 12:08:59 AM PST by 2ndDivisionVet
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

It warms my heart to see people on the left wear the hijab. The “men” as well as the women.


2 posted on 02/03/2017 12:13:22 AM PST by oblomov (We have passed the point where "law," properly speaking, has any further application. - C. Thomas)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

Yes, this reminds me of Obama’s cowardly speech in Egypt when he sucked up by saying “Just because a woman chooses to cover her head does not make her any less equal.”

These little anti-woman “Feminists” are cowardly too because they do not speak out for the truly oppressed women who are forced into being treated like property by Mohammedan culture.


3 posted on 02/03/2017 12:14:34 AM PST by Monterrosa-24 (Even more American than a French bikini and a Russian AK-47.)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

This is the most ridiculous event. World Hijab day?

They will never understand by trying on a scarf for one single day. It’s like when people say put on a scarf to see what cancer patients feel like? Please don’t. It’s a mockery.


4 posted on 02/03/2017 12:16:20 AM PST by HollyB
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To: oblomov

Now travel to Iraq or Saudi Araba with it on and remove it in the streets and you’ll find first hand out why Muslim culture doesn’t belong in the U.S. Be sure to wear body armor though.


5 posted on 02/03/2017 12:17:28 AM PST by jsanders2001
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To: HollyB

These idiots are being Taqiyya’d to death. What idiots. Next it will be National Sharia Law Day. And the liberal idiots will eat it up until sharia law is a reality where they live and then the head loppings, raping, and stonings will begin. Probably flight lessons for the homos as well. Well at least they’ll get what they deserve for being gullible idiots and we’ll get to say we told you so.


7 posted on 02/03/2017 12:23:21 AM PST by jsanders2001
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To: jsanders2001; HollyB

Notice the one student in the article thinking about converting to Islam? That isn’t usually something that happens overnight. Someone’s been working on her.


8 posted on 02/03/2017 12:24:10 AM PST by 2ndDivisionVet (You cannot invade the mainland US. There'd be a rifle behind every blade of grass.)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

The terrorists enroll as students in universities to find stupid white women to marry for citizenship and to recruit stupid students to fight for ISIS. Been going on for years.


9 posted on 02/03/2017 12:27:19 AM PST by jsanders2001
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I’d be more convinced of their solidarity and wish to truly experience muslim culture if they would, in addition to wrapping a scarf around their head, they would also get a clitorectomy with a pair of rusty scissors.


10 posted on 02/03/2017 12:34:12 AM PST by LegendHasIt
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To: 2ndDivisionVet
I’ve never before felt the need to carry any sort of self defense item around, and while I wasn’t clutching the spray or jumping at the rustling of leaves, having it in my pocket was a significant comfort.

But on this day, when you attended a Muslim event, not knowing that you would don, and later walk home wearing, a Hijab; on THIS day you felt the need to carry a form of self defense? Which, of course you did not "need" because no one threatened you in any manner. But poor snowflake "felt" anxious.

I wonder when snowflake is going to realize that he secretly supports the Second Amendment.

11 posted on 02/03/2017 12:47:20 AM PST by An.American.Expatriate (Here's my strategy on the War against Terrorism: We win, they lose. - with apologies to R.R.)
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To: HollyB

There is still time to have World Jockstrap Day before the super bowl. Then we could all better understand what the players feel like!


12 posted on 02/03/2017 12:57:30 AM PST by punchamullah
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To: 2ndDivisionVet; shibumi

Do they make ‘em in black leather with chrome spikes?

No?

Not interested.


13 posted on 02/03/2017 1:00:12 AM PST by Salamander (We're pain, we're steel, a plot of knives...)
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To: jsanders2001

On the Harley, bare-headed and leather bedecked, once in a while I pass by a Moose on the street.

Man, the looks I get.

So I give the throttle a little extra crack, just for grins.


14 posted on 02/03/2017 1:02:49 AM PST by Salamander (We're pain, we're steel, a plot of knives...)
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To: An.American.Expatriate
She knew beforehand. Such a thing is well publicized on campus. How else would she know to be there to write her story for the university newspaper?

Hopefully she'll marry a Muslim and spend the rest of her days in a harem being the lowest on the totem pole of all his wives, playing step-n-fetch-it to the senior Arab spouses.

15 posted on 02/03/2017 1:05:35 AM PST by 2ndDivisionVet (You cannot invade the mainland US. There'd be a rifle behind every blade of grass.)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet
Put on a Trump Hat, walk through East L.A. and get back to me.
Better yet, put on a Yarmulke and walk through Dearbornastan.
16 posted on 02/03/2017 1:13:58 AM PST by Kickass Conservative (The way Liberals carry on, you would think "Mexico" was Spanish for "Auschwitz".)
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To: HollyB

Next, world yarmulke day where participants get to walk the streets in Malmö Sweden and Gaza to show solidarity with Jews


17 posted on 02/03/2017 1:24:19 AM PST by silverleaf (Age takes a toll: Please have exact change)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet
She knew beforehand.

Before leaving, I was told to keep the hijab as a way to remember the experience and understand the value in the decision Muslim women make every day.

She did NOT know beforehand that she would get to keep the Hijab, so she obviously could not have known to extra take the pepper spray.

18 posted on 02/03/2017 1:27:47 AM PST by An.American.Expatriate (Here's my strategy on the War against Terrorism: We win, they lose. - with apologies to R.R.)
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To: Salamander
And for the fashionable Moslem Dominatrix...


19 posted on 02/03/2017 1:30:15 AM PST by shibumi (Cover it with gas and set it on fire.)
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To: An.American.Expatriate

“World Hijab Day” is obviously a day for non-Muslims to wear a hijab in “solidarity” with Islam. What else could it mean?


20 posted on 02/03/2017 1:36:59 AM PST by 2ndDivisionVet (You cannot invade the mainland US. There'd be a rifle behind every blade of grass.)
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