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How Trump used the incredible power of rejection to win the White House
Fox News ^ | December 19, 2016 | Jia Jiang

Posted on 12/19/2016 3:47:19 PM PST by 2ndDivisionVet

I am not a Trump supporter, to say the least. And I don’t agree with most of his policies and rhetoric. That being said, as an entrepreneur and researcher on the subject of fear and rejection, I see all people through the lens of their relationship with rejection.

As a result, I found Trump's candidacy fascinating. In my newly published TED talk on rejection, I discussed this phenomenon: that the people who changed the world, against overwhelming odds, were not the people who avoided rejection, but those who embraced it and used it as their power.

Unfortunately, the power of rejection is an amoral power. It was used by my personal heroes such as Mahatma Gandhi and Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., but also by ruthless dictators such as Adolf Hitler and Joseph Stalin.

In the case of Donald Trump, it’s too early to predict how his presidency will unfold, but one thing was clear -- Trump understood and used the power of rejection better than all of his opponents. Here are three major reasons why.

1. Trump actively sought rejection to build his tribe and jumpstart his campaign. Most politicians run away from rejection. During the primaries, Trump’s traditional and well-funded opponents such as Jeb Bush and Marco Rubio read roundly crafted speeches, used carefully assembled focus groups, and avoided controversies and rejections like plagues. As a result, we ended up with polished yet robotic candidates trying to appease to everyone....

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TOPICS: Chit/Chat; Politics
KEYWORDS: fakenews; hillary; nonsense; psychology; rejection; tribalism; trump; wishfulthinking
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1 posted on 12/19/2016 3:47:19 PM PST by 2ndDivisionVet
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

Hitler and Stalin were no Trump’s. Just keep trying to assign your theory like the climate warriors.


2 posted on 12/19/2016 3:52:32 PM PST by Jumper
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

I haven’t watched Fox for sometime. . . I haven’t been able to find my remote. Is this guy. . .I thought it might be a girl by the name so I checked. . .a regular on Fox? If so, I haven’t been missing anything.


3 posted on 12/19/2016 3:52:37 PM PST by Maudeen (No one on this earth is too far gone for Jesus.)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

liberal drivel

Trump won because the democratic party hates the majority of Americans and enough of them saw this and voted Trump for his pro American policies

Hillary brought nothing to the table


4 posted on 12/19/2016 3:52:40 PM PST by arl295
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To: Maudeen

i happen to have THE 5 on in the study to catch up on the Berlin terrorist attack. Juan looked like he was constipated and ready to cry.
i have a serious question. given no votes where changed by “the Russian hack” what is the big deal? every country does it. the DNC and HRC had crappy computer security and the truth came out. how is this different than international news and LSM lying to change possible voters?


5 posted on 12/19/2016 3:57:31 PM PST by bravo whiskey (Never bring a liberal gun law to a gun fight.)
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To: Jumper

Read it again. He didn’t say Trump was Hitler or Stalin.


6 posted on 12/19/2016 3:58:19 PM PST by 2ndDivisionVet (You cannot invade the mainland US. There'd be a rifle behind every blade of grass.)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

“I’m no fan of Trump.” I don’t need to go any further.


7 posted on 12/19/2016 3:59:29 PM PST by lilypad
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To: lilypad

Someone has to be slavishly pro-Trump for you to read their thoughts? That must limit the information you receive.


8 posted on 12/19/2016 4:01:00 PM PST by 2ndDivisionVet (You cannot invade the mainland US. There'd be a rifle behind every blade of grass.)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet
So we were all played and manipulated, we have no ability to think.
Sheesh.
No credit to voters for making a rational choice.
It's liberal brainscramblers like this, with their complete contempt for actual people, who make it impossible for libs to understand regular folks.

9 posted on 12/19/2016 4:01:00 PM PST by BitWielder1 (I'd rather have Unequal Wealth than Equal Poverty.)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

We will be hearing ‘hitler’ a lo these next 4 ...8? Years.. 12?...16? If Pence takes the torch?


10 posted on 12/19/2016 4:01:03 PM PST by Leep (Stronger without her!)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

This is an infomercial. The author:

Jia Jiang (fox byline)

Jia Jiang is an author, TED speaker and entrepreneur. He is the owner of Rejection Therapy, and the CEO of Wuju Learning. He teaches people and trains organizations to become fearless through rejection training.


11 posted on 12/19/2016 4:03:26 PM PST by Fhios
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Hmm...Rejection Theory appears to be a work in progress. One might with equal accuracy state that Trump identified with oppressed classes and earned their loyalty by opposing their oppressors. Naturally the latter "rejected" him. This is not exactly subtle stuff.

One notes that progressives never self-identify with oppression; it's always the sort of social justice that consists of oppressing somebody in return, hence morally sanctioned. We mock "it isn't fascism when we do it" but that is a perfectly cogent statement of that attitude.

Hence a massive blind spot for the resentment that they have earned. The other fellow has no right to feel that way and so it has to be something else. He - shall we name white males with no college education as the current subjects of this abuse? - he is stupid, unjust, a suitable focus for all the country's wrongs. Of course, he votes. At least for now.

There is no analysis here, only a clever reframing of the question such that only one answer is possible, which is the inadequacy of the opponent. Hillary's team was full of these tale-spinners and it cost her dearly.

12 posted on 12/19/2016 4:06:35 PM PST by Billthedrill
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

>>I see all people through the lens of their relationship with rejection.<<

I reject that lens.

It is like EVERY SINGLE LEAD CHARACTER IN EVERY TV SHOW IN PRIME-TIME has a problem with his/her father (always) and/or mother (usually).


13 posted on 12/19/2016 4:08:12 PM PST by freedumb2003 (Faithless=Traitor)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

“In my newly published TED talk on rejection”

Oh just shut up, Jib Jang.


14 posted on 12/19/2016 4:08:22 PM PST by BenLurkin (The above is not a statement of fact. It is either satire or opinion. Or both.)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

Gee, sounds like a salesman for his product...

Trump had to be rejected by the establishment as an anti-establishment candidate.
Anti-establishmentarianism is not always the right course.


15 posted on 12/19/2016 4:08:35 PM PST by mrsmith (Dumb sluts: Lifeblood of the Media, Backbone of the Democrat/RINO Party!)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet
I see all people through the lens of their relationship with rejection.

Have fun. Too limiting for me.

16 posted on 12/19/2016 4:09:46 PM PST by kanawa (The 1st job of a 'community organizer' is to disorganize the community)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

Scott Adams put it much better, when he said that Trump owns the downside of his decisions better than any politician.


17 posted on 12/19/2016 4:09:49 PM PST by Company Man (Best election evah!)
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To: Fhios
He is the owner of Rejection Therapy

"It's called Death Therapy, Bob"

18 posted on 12/19/2016 4:10:48 PM PST by freedumb2003 (Faithless=Traitor)
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To: Fhios

> This is an infomercial

When your only tool is a hammer, pretty soon every problem starts looking like a nail.


19 posted on 12/19/2016 4:12:36 PM PST by XEHRpa
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

Oh, I understand that but he peddling his theory that rejection-ism is what propelled each of the four he named. I could peddle a theory that because Hitler breathed air he was the same as Obama in similar shoes. That’s all.


20 posted on 12/19/2016 4:15:49 PM PST by Jumper
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