That is what they are telling you . I have four black children
I’m telling you what the Child & Family Services people in my parents’ county told my parents. Glad it’s different for you - when did you adopt your children? My impression is things have gotten harder in the last few years, where social workers just don’t want to put black children with white families because they “can’t help them understand what it really means to be African American”.
The assumption that my parents’ foster child would more impacted by her unknown sperm donor’s culture than her mother that she actually lived with for two years, was sort of hard for me to fathom.