Posted on 10/18/2023 11:41:16 AM PDT by nickcarraway
DEAR ABBY: I’m a lesbian. My wife and I have been married for nine years, but since COVID and my mother’s death, we have had problems. I met a man online; he’s an actor. We grew close via the internet. When my wife found out, we fought, and this man and I haven’t been as close.
Although we mended our relationship and I love her, I seem to always wonder. About a year ago, I got hit on by another actor on Instagram, and we also grew close until my wife found out. I stopped, but I still maintain contact with these men, and I’m not sure why.
I wonder if I’m happy with my wife or if it would be better with someone else. I wonder if I’m staying with her for love or for comfort. I’m not sure. I keep questioning my identity and my life. Any advice? — LACKING CERTAINTY IN CALIFORNIA
(Excerpt) Read more at nypost.com ...
Contradiction in terms.
Oh, yeah ... there’s nothing like a lesbian relationship to bring out the very worst in “domestic violence” ...
My favorite of the Old Dear Abby columns was when a woman wrote that there were two women living in the apartment across the hall from her who never had any male visitors. The woman asked, “Do you think they are Lebanese?”
If they were both as hot as these two in the pic I’d be happy to share her.
Dear LACKING CERTAINTY IN CALIFORNIA,
Get out of California, ASAP........................
Be sure to find their places on the H/C Matrix before getting too involved.
I spent my last ten dollars on birth control and beer.
When I was a young girl like normal girls do
I looked to a woman’s love to help get me through
I never needed any more than a feminine touch
I hated the thought of kissing a man it really was too much
I did not drink, I did not smoke I did not say “goddamn”
I was polite I was sensitive before I loved a man
My family, they were proud of me were proud of what I am
But then along came Lester and my tell of woe began
(Chorus)
I spent my last ten dollars on birth control and beer
My life was so much simpler when I was sober and queer
But the love of a strong hairy man has turned my head I fear
And made me spend my last ten bucks on birth control and beer
It was June 1983 when Mary Lou and I did part
She said she loved another dyke my god, it broke my heart
I was bitter and disillusioned to lose another girlfriend
Lester came to work at Papa’s store and decided to ease on in
Before my last heartbreak nothing made me more sick
Than a hairy-chested, cheap double-breasted suited man with a hard dick
I guess that I was courios I guess that I was young
I guess it was that rum and coke I guess that I was dumb
(Chorus)
For of course, for a woman to love a man she must also love to booze
If a woman don’t drink beside her man then she will surely lose him
As I sit in this hetero honky-tonk and reflect upon my past
I think about those girlfriends and why they didn’t last
For there’s certain thrills that lesbian love simply cannot supply
Like paying for abortions from sperm gone awry
And so I say to you my friends without this man I’d die
So listen to my tell of woe and hang your head and cry
(Chorus)
Abusive relationships are certainly not exclusive to heterosexuals.
Trying to unpack this so I can understand it.
The writer is female and is a lesbian, “married” to a woman. She has met a man on some website and grew emotionally attached to him. She is wondering if she is really lesbian, or maybe if she is normal.
Reply from “dear Abby.” Hell no! You’re not normal! You need to see a shrink. Go talk with some gay or lesbian people right away.
According to the studies, lesbians relationships have the most domestic violence, then straight couples, then gay males couples have the least. For what it’s worth.
The key fact is that she seems to be attracted to presumably handsome male actors. Physical attraction to males is making her doubt that she is a lesbian. Isn’t there a bi category? The resolution of her dilemma seems fairly simple to me. I bet her lesbianism is more political than real.
I am so glad I am in my 60’s.
The poor people younger than 40 are in for a real mess of a life.
Contradiction in terms? Maybe, maybe not. Difficult to tell and no I don’t want pictures to help.... 🤣
If it’s two XX women, they aren’t married.
Women don’t have wives. Men don’t have husbands.
Dykes and fairies like to lie about all sorts of things.
Am I missing something?
*If they were both as hot as these two in the pic I’d be happy to share her./
Be sure to find their places on the H/C Matrix before getting too involved.*
You mean watching the 2 of them is not worth the risk?
According to the wisdom of Andrew "Dice" Clay ...
Guys: either you sxxk dxxk or you do not sxxk dxxk. There is no "bi".
The same concept could easily be adapted to women
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