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Dear Abby: I Want a Real Relationship But Guys Only Want One Thing
New York Post ^ | May 22, 2023

Posted on 05/22/2023 4:00:41 PM PDT by nickcarraway

DEAR ABBY: I’m a 32-year-old woman. My 20s were spent in a serious long-term relationship. It was a lot of firsts for me. After we split, I took a couple of years to sow my wild oats and find out who I am as an individual.

I’m now looking for something more than “friends with benefits.” However, the last few men I’ve met and gone on dates with, as wholesome as they seemed on dating sites (which have been my main source of meeting men), were really just looking for hookups. I want to find a life partner.

I have been chatting with a potentially great guy I met online, and we have a date scheduled. But I’m nervous that when we meet that he’ll expect more than a date. I’m over that. Like I said, I want an actual relationship.

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TOPICS: Heated Discussion
KEYWORDS: dating; hoors; manosphere; men; mgtow; pua; redpill; relationships; sloots; slutwalk; women
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1 posted on 05/22/2023 4:00:41 PM PDT by nickcarraway
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“...dating sites (which have been my main source of meeting men)...”
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Well, there’s your problem, right there...


2 posted on 05/22/2023 4:02:12 PM PDT by Repeal The 17th (Get out of the matrix and get a real life.)
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To: nickcarraway

Check his bank account, honey. Everything else will fall into place


3 posted on 05/22/2023 4:02:33 PM PDT by JonPreston ( ✌ ☮️ Free kiryandil )
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To: nickcarraway

Step 1: Don’t be a slag.


4 posted on 05/22/2023 4:02:36 PM PDT by glorgau
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To: nickcarraway

Just get a dog.


5 posted on 05/22/2023 4:03:17 PM PDT by Mark (DONATE ONCE every 3 months-is that a big deal?)
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To: nickcarraway

So a woman with the high body count complains she can’t find a hudband. Women are simply horrible.


6 posted on 05/22/2023 4:03:18 PM PDT by joma89 (Buy weapons and ammo, folks, and have the will to use them.)
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To: nickcarraway

Sorry Sweetie, MGTOW rules among young men today.
They have finally realized, they don’t need you.


7 posted on 05/22/2023 4:03:35 PM PDT by Macoozie (Handcuffs and Orange Jumpsuits)
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Dear Abby: I Want a Real Relationship But Guys Only Want One Thing

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A girl with out a y chromosome ?

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8 posted on 05/22/2023 4:03:53 PM PDT by cuz1961 (USCGR Veteran )
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To: nickcarraway

Go to a church picnic girl.

5.56mm


9 posted on 05/22/2023 4:04:33 PM PDT by M Kehoe (Quid Pro Joe and the Ho have got to go)
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To: Macoozie

MGTOW is a feminist movement.


10 posted on 05/22/2023 4:05:29 PM PDT by nickcarraway
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To: nickcarraway

The dynamic here is that she had a lot of sex in her 20’s and she said no to the 20’s decent guys, who are now late 20’s and 30’s and are sowing their oats with the 20’s year olds. For many women who donthis, they will find that their thirties are desert years for relationships.

The lesson here for women is to lock down guys while still in their 20’s.


11 posted on 05/22/2023 4:06:32 PM PDT by Jonty30 (If liberals were truth tellers, they'd call themselves literals. )
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After we split, I took a couple of years to sow my wild oats and find out who I am as an individual.


So, she went full slut and is wondering what’s wrong.

I’m sure she didn’t spend those years after her first long relationship identifying as Seattle Slew.


12 posted on 05/22/2023 4:06:48 PM PDT by nesnah (Infringe - act so as to limit or undermine [something]; encroach on)
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To: nickcarraway

1st stop shoving food into your mouth, 2nd stop being a ho

and your problems will start to go away


13 posted on 05/22/2023 4:07:24 PM PDT by TexasFreeper2009
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To: Macoozie
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14 posted on 05/22/2023 4:07:43 PM PDT by nickcarraway
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Who wants to wife up a proper garden tool?


15 posted on 05/22/2023 4:09:33 PM PDT by HombreSecreto (The life of a repo man is always intense)
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To: nickcarraway

With the second letter, I can say straight up that women, who go to resorts alone are there to hookup. If she tells her husband that the guy she is going with is gay, he’s either not gay or he is just cover for her hookups.


16 posted on 05/22/2023 4:10:24 PM PDT by Jonty30 (If liberals were truth tellers, they'd call themselves literals. )
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To: HombreSecreto

Who wants to wife up a proper garden tool?


Alex, “What do you call a hooker that tends a garden?”.


17 posted on 05/22/2023 4:16:06 PM PDT by nesnah (Infringe - act so as to limit or undermine [something]; encroach on)
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To: nickcarraway

With that homely face, count me out of that one thing.


18 posted on 05/22/2023 4:18:11 PM PDT by Fungi
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She has one thing in her favor. She hasn’t gone to Free Republic to seek high quality relationship advice.

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19 posted on 05/22/2023 4:18:28 PM PDT by frank ballenger (You have summoned up a thundercloud. You're gonna hear from me. Anthem by Leonard Cohen)
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To: Macoozie

Turns out bicycles don’t need fish, either.


20 posted on 05/22/2023 4:18:43 PM PDT by gundog (It was a bright cold day in April, and the clocks were striking thirteen. )
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