Posted on 07/13/2022 4:03:23 PM PDT by nickcarraway
Father packed a phone and a change of clothes then dumped the boy at his kindergarten and never came back Teachers found the family home abandoned with no sign of the boy’s family, relatives contacted by the school refused to come and take him
A five-year-old boy has been abandoned at his kindergarten in China after his father discovered he was not his biological son. The little boy, identified in local media reports by the pseudonym “Xiao Rui”, was abandoned at the kindergarten last week by his father after he dropped the child off for the day.
When no one arrived to collect the boy that afternoon, staff contacted his parents and relatives, but none of them wanted him back.
The boy’s teacher, surnamed Chen, said Xiao Rui was enrolled at the kindergarten in April this year, and that his father brought him to the kindergarten in Guangxi province, southern China, and picked him up at the end of each school day, the Jiangxi Morning Daily reported.
The father, who was not named, told Chen he wouldn’t come for the boy because he had discovered that Xiao Rui was not his own son after getting a paternity test. The father then told Chen the boy was now the school’s problem.
Chen later discovered that Xiao Rui’s father had packed a change of clothes and a mobile phone in the boy’s bag on the last day he dropped him off. ‘Not pornography’: hysteria in China over ‘sexy’ male pole dancers in water park 9 Jul 2022
The father continued to speak to the school on the phone after this but refused to collect the boy. When Chen went to the house where the boy had lived with his parents she found it empty. The whereabouts of the boy’s mother is also unknown.
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Yup.
Mom screwed around on her husband.
I’d be done with her. Probably the boy too. The kid is a lie to the man. Evidence of her betrayal every time you look at him.
Let her shack up with the real father.
What a selfish jackass. It’s not the little kid’s fault.
The way he did it was awful. He should have left when the child was with the mother. Then again, after getting hit with something like that, I can see how he might not have been thinking clearly. That’s THE worst betrayal imaginable.
The ones who really bear the blame are the mother and the man she created the child with. He bears responsibility. He’s the one who needs to raise that child - not this poor schlub.
This is what I’m thinking. Every time he looks at that kid its got to be like a fresh slap in the face....a reminder of his wife’s betrayal and even worse of leading him to think that that kid was his when it wasn’t.
He should have left the child with the mother, but I fully understand him leaving.
Another article mentioned that the boy's mother had been contacted and would be picking him up "in the next few days".
Sounds like an an estranged couple where "dad" was left to deal with the child and he found out the truth, then came up with a plan to put that responsibility back on "mom", while also letting the world know that she was a cheating bitch.
What is chopped liver?
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An expression for “something worthless”, as in “What am I, chopped liver?”
Chinese Democrat with no love in his heart.
Back in the early 90’s I worked on a multimedia project on leukemic children. Not on camera, but in conversation, one of the nurses described the reaction among staff when various Chinese couples would choose for financial reasons to not treat their child. I don’t know if those were oddballs or a cultural consideration. If there was a real difference in medical payment in those situations for citizens or non-citizens, that could have also been an issue.
I’m a step parent. I was raised by step parents.
Your relationship to a child is not one of the duty to the natural parent, it is between you and the child. As if you are their parent.
I would have killed the cheating bitch. but raised the son as my own. He is innocent. I know Chinese culture likes to spread retribution through a family as they are all complicit in the crime of one member. Makes sense in some cultures (like USA Blacks) but for the most part I don’t buy into that. It is merely a mechanism to cull the tribe.
Either way sounds like the poor child may never see either of them again outside of a police line up. Fortunately I believe given the number of families who would love to have a son, he may likely find a new place with adopted family soon.
Lucky kid. Dont they usually sell unwanted children for body parts?
There’s a yuge shortage of young women in China. I think there are 3 young women for every 4 young men. Thus 1/4th of young men are on the search for women either from out of country are already taken.
Wong Wang.
Mrs Deplorable and I adopted a few children. Who cares if they aren’t your blood, one of our adopted kids is so Irish that he gets a suntan passing by a 40 watt bulb. We love our adopted children as much as we do our own children. We feel sorry for that little boy...
Poorlittle guy. What a horrible thing to do to a child. Hope he finds a loving home soon. Surely someone in China has the compassion and wherewithal to adopt him.
Neighbors of mine on Bainbridge Island had their own lovely daughter and adopted a little Chinese baby girl from China.. Lovely kids, good home. Perhaps a well-to-do American family will go get him. He’s young enough to learn English and feel like an America kid before too long. Or British. Or....
As incensed as you may be, to be defrauded and expected to spend hundreds of thousands to raise a child that’s not yours is flatly unacceptable. To excuse the mom is the same. The number of men that are unwilling to polish another man’s f**k trophy grows exponentially on a daily basis.
I thought it was Wee Doh Noh.
Am THE WORST! :-(
Mother was selfish to have an affair and father was selfish to abandon a 5 year old….
Yes this man’s betrayal is every bit, if not more selfish than the mother’s.
5 year old has no control over his lineage and has known this man in every way to be his father since his birth (we assume)
Don’t you remotely claim the man hasn’t betrayed this boy.
You can rationalize it as justifiable if you want to, but it’s a betrayal.
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