Posted on 10/05/2018 10:47:52 AM PDT by 2ndDivisionVet
This country is in the grips of a defiant surge of protest against the nomination of Brett Kavanaugh, a mass, coast-to-coast rebellionand its being led and supported overwhelmingly by women.
Over the past several weeks, thousands of women have come forward to organize their communities and share their stories of surviving sexual assault. They have argued powerfully that a man who has perpetrated such an act and refused to take responsibility has no place on the Supreme Court. They have told these stories outside district offices from Anchorage to Miami, and inside the Capitolincluding, yes, in an elevator. They are challenging notions of power and leadership through connection, vulnerability, and ferocious bravery.
But while women have been putting their lives on hold and their bodies on the line, where have the men been?
Its not as if men dont have anything at stake. Brett Kavanaugh represents a clear threat to our democracy. His confirmation would likely lead to the roll back of womens rights, access to health care, workers rights, and more. And his alleged assaults and callous disregard for those who have shared their difficult truths is simply disqualifyinga truth that should be obvious not only to any man who knows and cares about a woman who has survived sexual assault, but to any man with a working conscience.
Through our work as organizers with two of the organizations involved in the Kavanaugh pushback, weve had an opportunity to witness the protests up close. And from what weve observed, men have been the clear minority of participants. Yet again. As during last years fight to defend the Affordable Care Act and resist Trumps tax giveaway to billionaires, the vast majority of the people weve seen taking to the streets have been women. Last Friday in the Hart Senate Building, for instance, perhaps 20 of the more than 200 people gathered were men. In the Supreme Court fight, with the future of Roe v. Wade and sexual assault at the center of the fight, perhaps this doesnt come as a surprise to many. But men need to start showing upand showing up often.
To be clear: We believe that those most affected by dangerous policies and political decisions should be at the center of resisting them. These protests belong to women, and there is no way men could have done what women have done these last few weekswomen like Jennifer Flynn Walker, Linda Sarsour, and Tracey Corder who have been leading on-ground-efforts, and those like Dr. Christine Blasey Ford, Maria Gallagher, and Ana María Archila, who have transformed the national discussion through sharing their stories.
So, this women-led movement does not need men to come in to lead. Weve dominated the political conversation in this country far too much already. But the moment does call for more of us to join the fight. The non-stop organizing and protest being led by women is exhausting, particularly when it is coupled with the trauma and pain for of revealing the most vulnerable stories of their lives.
Women are putting in a lot of work. Theyre reliving their worst memories so that we can better understand how pervasive and damaging the problem is. In return, its our responsibility to listen, to believe, and to support their efforts in every way we can. We must recognize the heavy emotional labor survivors of sexual assault undertake to tell and retell their stories. The women at the center of these protests have jobs, families, and other needs as well, and the movement needs reinforcements.
Thats why men have to step up by showing up, but also, once they arrive, be comfortable stepping back into supporting roles. In our patriarchal-to-the-core society, were trained from a young age, explicitly and implicitly, to believe that our voices are the ones that matterand that women should show deference. We need to commit to confronting that bad training, and instead listening and supporting womens leadership.
In practical terms, this means being willing to hold the camera outside an elevator while women share their stories in front of the cameras; to pick up the pizza instead of speaking at the press conference; and to help manage crowds while others march and chant. And, at every moment, it means focusing on listeninglistening to peoples stories, responding to their needs, and providing whatever support is needed.
We have enough mansplainers in Congressand theres another one who we definitely need to prevent from sitting on the Supreme Court. Men can and must stand up for what they believe by showing up in the fights that matter, but we need to rally behind womens leadership.
In the coming days, women will continue to fight to stop the Kavanaugh nomination. We hope more men will join their strugglewhich is also our struggle. Bring a sign. Bring a friend. And be ready to listen.
The nation is a radical America-hating rag.
I agree. They want Kavanaugh to admit to something he didn’t do. That might be tough to backtrack on. Even if Kavanaugh gets confirmed,this circus gives the next potential candidate an indication of what he’s in for & might dissuade him from even trying. Whereas a Democrat nominee might be dirty as can be & still get pushed right through.
It’s time for those widdle pajama men to find their balls and stand up for themselves before they’re dragged off to the gallows on false allegations.
Time for the “Nation” to change their name. Perhaps “The Traitor”.
Fixed it...
Right. No matter what. You MUST believe.
We must recognize the heavy emotional labor survivors of sexual assault undertake to tell and retell their stories.
What if they're not telling the truth?
What we are watching is so bizarre. "He's guilty because I believe her." What?!
Finding Dr. Ford truthful or having your own sexual assault story in your past or knowing that some men get away with sexually assaulting women ... NONE of this PROVES that Kavanaugh did anything.
Your belief in Ford isn't proof. Your past rape isn't proof. Your belief that men get away with crimes isn't proof.
The MEN are behind Judge Kavanaugh.
The girlie boys are behind the Soros harpies. Notice you can’t find one in front.
The MEN are behind Judge Kavanaugh.
The girlie boys are behind the Soros harpies. Notice you can’t find one in front.
Dan and Darius need to reach down between their legs and see if there is anything there.
5.56mm
We’ve gone from The Men of Troy to the men of soy.
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