And from what we’ve observed, men have been the clear minority of participants.
THAT OUGHT TO TELL YOU SOMETHING SNOWFLAKE!...................
Posted on 10/05/2018 10:47:52 AM PDT by 2ndDivisionVet
This country is in the grips of a defiant surge of protest against the nomination of Brett Kavanaugh, a mass, coast-to-coast rebellion—and it’s being led and supported overwhelmingly by women.
Over the past several weeks, thousands of women have come forward to organize their communities and share their stories of surviving sexual assault. They have argued powerfully that a man who has perpetrated such an act and refused to take responsibility has no place on the Supreme Court. They have told these stories outside district offices from Anchorage to Miami, and inside the Capitol—including, yes, in an elevator. They are challenging notions of power and leadership through connection, vulnerability, and ferocious bravery.
But while women have been putting their lives on hold and their bodies on the line, where have the men been?
It’s not as if men don’t have anything at stake. Brett Kavanaugh represents a clear threat to our democracy. His confirmation would likely lead to the roll back of women’s rights, access to health care, workers’ rights, and more. And his alleged assaults and callous disregard for those who have shared their difficult truths is simply disqualifying—a truth that should be obvious not only to any man who knows and cares about a woman who has survived sexual assault, but to any man with a working conscience.
Through our work as organizers with two of the organizations involved in the Kavanaugh pushback, we’ve had an opportunity to witness the protests up close. And from what we’ve observed, men have been the clear minority of participants. Yet again. As during last year’s fight to defend the Affordable Care Act and resist Trump’s tax giveaway to billionaires, the vast majority of the people we’ve seen taking to the streets have been women. Last Friday in the Hart Senate Building, for instance, perhaps 20 of the more than 200 people gathered were men. In the Supreme Court fight, with the future of Roe v. Wade and sexual assault at the center of the fight, perhaps this doesn’t come as a surprise to many. But men need to start showing up—and showing up often.
To be clear: We believe that those most affected by dangerous policies and political decisions should be at the center of resisting them. These protests belong to women, and there is no way men could have done what women have done these last few weeks—women like Jennifer Flynn Walker, Linda Sarsour, and Tracey Corder who have been leading on-ground-efforts, and those like Dr. Christine Blasey Ford, Maria Gallagher, and Ana María Archila, who have transformed the national discussion through sharing their stories.
So, this women-led movement does not need men to come in to lead. We’ve dominated the political conversation in this country far too much already. But the moment does call for more of us to join the fight. The non-stop organizing and protest being led by women is exhausting, particularly when it is coupled with the trauma and pain for of revealing the most vulnerable stories of their lives.
Women are putting in a lot of work. They’re reliving their worst memories so that we can better understand how pervasive and damaging the problem is. In return, it’s our responsibility to listen, to believe, and to support their efforts in every way we can. We must recognize the heavy emotional labor survivors of sexual assault undertake to tell and retell their stories. The women at the center of these protests have jobs, families, and other needs as well, and the movement needs reinforcements.
That’s why men have to step up by showing up, but also, once they arrive, be comfortable stepping back into supporting roles. In our patriarchal-to-the-core society, we’re trained from a young age, explicitly and implicitly, to believe that our voices are the ones that matter—and that women should show deference. We need to commit to confronting that bad training, and instead listening and supporting women’s leadership.
In practical terms, this means being willing to hold the camera outside an elevator while women share their stories in front of the cameras; to pick up the pizza instead of speaking at the press conference; and to help manage crowds while others march and chant. And, at every moment, it means focusing on listening—listening to people’s stories, responding to their needs, and providing whatever support is needed.
We have enough mansplainers in Congress—and there’s another one who we definitely need to prevent from sitting on the Supreme Court. Men can and must stand up for what they believe by showing up in the fights that matter, but we need to rally behind women’s leadership.
In the coming days, women will continue to fight to stop the Kavanaugh nomination. We hope more men will join their struggle—which is also our struggle. Bring a sign. Bring a friend. And be ready to listen.
I think it time Republicans to hold another 4 year Democrat shooting contest to control the vermin. Apparently the lesson of 1861-1865 has worn off.
[The Nation] == [Freak Show]
The magazine which claims the U.S. is responsible for Venezuela’s economic collapse, and calls socialism a “red herring”.
I think this liberal rag meant men = faggots/triggered wusses.
Women Lie...
Women Lie all the time...
Women can go as low as to lying about sexual assault.. various reports by Universities and the Airforce say about 40% do.
40% !!! Let that sink in for a minute or two..
I think the number is so high because there are no heavy repercussions, our role our men should be that once a lier has been identified she is punished (fired, arrested, exposed to society and friends etc as the case may be)
I am betting Daniel is diddling Darius.
It is Daniel’s only excuse.
One of the rabid feminist’s favorite lines is “You have no idea what it is like to have a baby inside you”. No, but I do have an idea what it is like to have 5 MILLION SCREAMING TO GET OUT ON A DAILY BASIS.
Ana Maria Archila and Maria Gallagher were the two women who confronted Flake inside the elevator. Perhaps because they expressed such raw emotion, few media outlets dug into their political activism. Archila is an executive director of the Center for Popular Democracy
Uh, say what? I thought men were, like, evil or something....
And from what we’ve observed, men have been the clear minority of participants.
THAT OUGHT TO TELL YOU SOMETHING SNOWFLAKE!...................
And there you have it: This demonic freak of an author just wants to kill babies.
That’s why men have to step up by showing up, but also, once they arrive, be comfortable stepping back into supporting roles.
Lol so “show up, sit down, shut up?” What a complete soy boy pussy
FR really does need a LIKE button.
Not just men. Everyone should be concerned about the loss of Presumed Innocent.
#CallingAllBetaMales #BetaUprising
LOL. Thanks.
I dont fight for lying women. Or lying anyone.
He vehemently denies this. And the proof of this is where????
Are you ready to face a libel suite, The Nation?
I don't see the words alleged anywhere, so you have proof. Show it.
Disclaimer: Opinions posted on Free Republic are those of the individual posters and do not necessarily represent the opinion of Free Republic or its management. All materials posted herein are protected by copyright law and the exemption for fair use of copyrighted works.