Yep! These older folks are desparate to maintain their independence, and caution & common sense go out the window.
That's all right, Mr. M. We all use the thread for venting, dumping....
tomorrow I will have to pose a question, needing advice.
You're right, Monday could be part of the problem.
Have you made a list...of the positives....negatives....
Sometimes writing it down, seeing the thoughts on paper helps you to make a decision.
It's only normal that you might spend some time searching for the right course for YOU, the best way for you to use YOUR talents.
So your Vanderbilt experience, even if you leave it behind, isn't necessarily without its value.