Please reconsider Jen, your input has been thoughtful and helpful. Please don't let someone else's insecurity drive you away. If you'd like I will develop a software program that will add an 'f' to lakey's name anytime it appears on your computer. Now lakey, if you are reading this I hope that you will learn from this incident. Your rudeness to Jen was uncalled for.
Perhaps you should go back & read the insults other freepers have endured, sandude, with no apologies.