By the way Corin, I looked in on one of the threads in the Crusades where you are most active. Would it really surprise you to know that to the side you are not on, some of those who fight "besides you" seem as despiccable as you see some of the opposition? There are some real bad eggs on both sides. I'd wager that there are three times as many nice, pleasant Calvinists just lurking out here as there are throwing mud at you. Same for the Arminianists, I'm sure.
Good for you for getting involved, even if it is on the wrong side - ;-) - but you're one of the few nice guys who dares, I'm sure.
Actually Jen, that doesn't surprise me at all. There's a lot of freepmail flying back and forth. I've met some Calvinists I can respect and with whom I can have a civil discussion, even in our disagreements.
And yes, to paraphrase Hagrid, there are many times and Arminian will say something an I'll say "He shouldn'ta said that..."