Your statement is true.
But my statement is also true: Most of the domestic abuse is initiated by women.
No one is saying that women "deserve" any of it. But women physically attack men quite often. And sometimes the end result is that the man kills the woman. No one should choose violence. That is a lesson that should be learned by both men and women.
I’d like to see some data here.
https://cde.ucr.cjis.gov/LATEST/resources/reports/Domestic%20Relationships%20and%20Violent%20Crimes%202020-2024.pdf Women are more like to be abused than men, and men are more likely to initiate the abuse, per this report.
This summary - https://domesticviolenceresearch.org/domestic-violence-facts-and-statistics-at-a-glance/ - says, in part where women appear as aggressors more often, the “ Range of findings due to variety of samples and operational definitions of PV.
Parenthetically, we argue strongly that men who transition to women are still guys. These “women” beat gals in all kinds of athletic events. It strains credulity to say women abuse men more often in the same breath.
Even modern, classy women are snapping, and committing astonishing acts of domestic violence.
The “system” has been and remains willfully blind to that fact, eliminating a crucial disincentive that could otherwise have stemmed the tide.