If he pays the bills, he gets a piece of @ss occasionally, but will never be the priority.
Piece of @ss. Is that what you call it?
The same is true for men. They have adult genitalia but are little boys intellectually/behaviorally. All they are good for is collecting neck tattoos and children from different women.
Uneducated and uncultured, they do not know how to set priorities. Furthermore, their value system is all messed up (teaching that some value systems are better than others is wrong - falls under ethnocentrism), and that leads to a long term negative outcome both in marriage and with raising children. Even factors such as crime rates, suicide etc. are related. Wealth does not create culture, but culture does create wealth.