Posted on 02/15/2025 10:03:27 PM PST by grundle
God bless you, rellic.
The manosphere has been around for decades.
It is the only place young men can come for advice that advances their interests first and foremost.
It has active debates on a wide range of topics.
It is way below the radar because the left has massive censorship against it—any mass media coverage is totally hostile, biased and inaccurate.
These are just normal guys trying to figure out what is going on with young women—and how best to deal with it.
Many of them do not have any father figure they can rely on at all—or their father is a useless wimp and/or a terrible role model.
The basic advice all young men are given is to get fit and look the very best they can—not crazy bodybuilding stuff—but just enough exercise so that their looks do not hurt them.
Then they are taught social skills that most women seem to understand automatically—how to read a room—how to tell if a woman is attracted to you or is not attracted to you—basic stuff.
There is nothing extraordinary about it—this is stuff that men’s fathers taught them over the centuries—but is a lost art these days.
Well, for her to raise her standards some higher standards man will have to lower his.
Curious any of the 3 kids crazy?
Brady bunch were 2 widowed parents
A guy could tell a woman he could count on one hand how many women he’s been with, the woman would either lie, or get pissed you were judging her as it’s unlikely she could say the same thing.
In churches today, like much of modern society, mens problems are mens problems, and womens problems are also mens problems.
It works the same way racially.
BIPOC's problems are cause by white people. White people's problems are caused by white people.
None of your f@@k@n business.
Sure, he could TELL her that, but would it be true?
I am saying in this theoretical it is true.
Someti.es people change. Male schizophrenia onset can be as late as 30 years old
Late onset psychosis can happen I 30s or 40s
Life is unexpected and messy.
There is no guaranteed recipe.
Nothing good comes out of a body count discussion.
It should be avoided if at all possible.
If impossible to avoid humor is the best approach. “Do I need to pull out my calculus textbook for this discussion?”
Most importantly the guy should never let the woman know he thinks she is lying—and of course keep calm no matter what she says.
The goal is to get her off the topic as soon as possible.
Both jackasses who have ruined many nice young men.
Good point.
If she has a “body count” more than one is comfortable with, Why bother wasting each other’s time?
Twice now, I skipped through and listened to everything she said. She said she dates seriously because she wants to marry and have more children.
In other words, she doesn’t play around. By ‘high standards,’ she means she only wants to date a serious man who will love her child, too.
You’re all pro-life, right? So, when these women end up as single moms, you don’t think they should ever marry anyone?
If you know she has a high body count that is one situation—avoid if you see fit.
But—in many cases you have very limited or even no data.
She is the worst possible source for that information—if indeed you want to find out about it.
Lol.
These days most men who live in cities, for example, just don’t have good data—and need to be honest with themselves about that.
You mean it was a "virgin birth."
The Immaculate Conception refers to Mary being born without original sin.
God has most of my life!
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