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When Your Son Goes MAGA
The New York Times ^ | Jan. 19, 2025 | Callie Holtermann

Posted on 01/25/2025 8:10:40 PM PST by MinorityRepublican

It is easy for Alex Behr to gush about her son, Eli, whom she describes as a generous and thoughtful college junior who had a serious skateboarding phase.

It is much harder for her to talk about his politics. Ms. Behr, 59, is a Democrat in Portland, Ore., who voted enthusiastically for Vice President Kamala Harris in the November election. She and her ex-husband were appalled that Eli, 20, decided to cast his first vote in a presidential election this fall for Donald J. Trump.

When Eli brought a “Make America Great Again” hat home from college this summer, Ms. Behr threw it into the corner of his bedroom. They argued about guns, immigration and abortion, struggling to do so without permanently damaging their relationship.

“facts don’t matter to you,” Ms. Behr wrote in a moment of frustration during one text exchange about Mr. Trump’s legal battles. “love you. have a good day.”

A few months removed from Mr. Trump’s victory, the two have arrived at an impasse. Ms. Behr worries her son is being swayed by conservative opinions fed to him on YouTube and Instagram. Eli feels like he is simply learning to think for himself — a quality he admires in Mr. Trump.

“He’s not afraid to say what he thinks,” Eli said in an interview. “It seems like what he says is coming from him instead of coming from a big cabinet behind you, telling you what to say.”

Mr. Trump has for nearly a decade been a source of political divides within families, cleaving new fault lines along the way. In 2016, as younger voters leaned toward Hillary Clinton over Mr. Trump, it was easy to find left-leaning children loudly bemoaning the politics of their Trump-supporting parents, online and in the news.

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TOPICS: Humor; Society
KEYWORDS: alexbehr; callieholtermann; coollikebarron; enemieslist; enemyjournalist; fakenews; newyorkslimes; newyorktimes; nytsedition; portlandleftist
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To: MinorityRepublican
Ms. Behr worries her son is being swayed by conservative opinions fed to him on YouTube and Instagram.

No, Ms. Behr. Your son is just quite a bit smarter than you are.

It happens. 🤷🏻‍♀️

41 posted on 01/25/2025 10:50:15 PM PST by Allegra (It’s MAGA time! )
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To: kiryandil

They’re All STUCK IN THE LAND OF DENIAL AND OLD USSR “BRAND OF JUSTICE “ NOT TO MENTION JUST PLAIN FULL OF $}{!T !!! To }{€££ with everyone of the SCUMBAGS AND LIES THAT THEY SPEW !!!


42 posted on 01/25/2025 10:51:45 PM PST by mabarker1 ( (Congress- the opposite of PROGRESS!!! A fraud, a hypocrite, a liar. I'm a member of Congress!!!)
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To: MinorityRepublican

Progressive parents suspect son isn’t gay.

‘We are devastated that he isn’t gay and since he isn’t it/they is probably homophobic”. The worry turned into a nightmare when their son introduced them to his girlfriend, and she was an actual trans trans man (female) but things went way out of control when he clearly and reasonably stated his reasons why he was voting for a PDJT.

The parents were quoted as saying “we raised our children to be normal and now we find out he is a heterosexual, with Nazi beliefs. He actually thinks hard work and diligently putting in effort will lead to success… success he said. We still have hope that he is unhoused, living in a tent, addicted to drugs and living without societal boundaries.”

Imagine our total shock when he mentioned that his promotion into a management position in banking. I was immediately ready to throw him out even if I am his father but my husband pointed out that it could be that he was just leading the block level freedom area, begging/groveling, tents, boxes, feces deposits … “.

We still have hope. The final comments the parents had were that “the cross representing pagan sacrifice around his neck gave us relief, since it clearly demonstrates his support of killing babies as early or late as wanted and we all know what else could that symbol imply. That and he said something about leading a revolutionary meetings or school on Sunday mornings at 9AM. We do hope he gets a chance to rest up quickly since those selfish sanctimonious nazis start going to lunch around 1230 on sundays and it’s the best time to sucker the rightwing haters out of money while standing in the median of busy intersections.”


43 posted on 01/25/2025 10:58:26 PM PST by wgmalabama (For rent —)
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To: Harmless Teddy Bear
Odd that she would succeed and be so upset about it.

,,, Champagne socialist guilt. Hard to be happy with that outlook.

44 posted on 01/25/2025 11:11:26 PM PST by shaggy eel (A long way south of the border.)
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To: MinorityRepublican
Young men like Eli may feel like he is being emasculated in the environment they live in.

,,, I think you're right. Women had their bang flash moment in the late 1960s when they decided they could do anything and many could. Nothing wrong with equity feMANism but the toxicity of gender feMANism has left it's mark. Now it's time for guys to take the band aids off their mouths and smile at adversity.

45 posted on 01/25/2025 11:23:09 PM PST by shaggy eel (A long way south of the border.)
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To: MinorityRepublican

My daughter and her husband do not like Donald Trump. But their 11 year old son, my grandson, was all excited when Trump won reelection. He told his mom, very excitedly, “prices are coming down and gas is $2.00 a gallon!” And then when Trump reinstated Tik Tok, my grandson said, “That’s my President!”


46 posted on 01/26/2025 12:06:28 AM PST by murron
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To: MinorityRepublican

Being liberal, free spirited and overly tolerant is a phase children typically grow out of... Those who don’t become Democrats.


47 posted on 01/26/2025 12:21:50 AM PST by jerod (Nazis were essentially Socialist in Hugo Boss uniforms... Get over it!)
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To: july4thfreedomfoundation

“Someday, her son will put her in a crappy nursing home and she will wonder why he resents her.”

A crappy nursing home staffed by the “migrants” she probably loves.


48 posted on 01/26/2025 1:02:04 AM PST by rxh4n1
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To: MinorityRepublican

Andrew Tate is a fierce misandrist. In his own words, his career is based on scamming men out of money.


49 posted on 01/26/2025 1:08:28 AM PST by nickcarraway
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To: murron
And then when Trump reinstated Tik Tok, my grandson said, “That’s my President!”

Wait, I thought Trump has only delayed the TikTok thing for a few weeks?

I've never understood this issue. In early 2020, Trump wanted to ban TikTok, and Democrats were against it. Then, somehow, Democrats became for banning it? How di that flipflop happen?

Also, TikTok is not some bastion of conservativism, or Trump support. Quite the opposite.

50 posted on 01/26/2025 1:11:27 AM PST by nickcarraway
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To: MinorityRepublican

Guess what Lefties...it can work the other way too. You celebrated when it was kids in the 60s generation who turned into Commies in opposition to their Conservative parents. Well youthful rebellion is just as glamorous and romantic and cool when they’re rebelling against you.

HA HA HA HA HA HA HA!!!!!!!


51 posted on 01/26/2025 3:37:04 AM PST by FLT-bird
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To: MinorityRepublican

The very fact NYT would publish an article with a title like this is all you need to know that they are the enemedia.


52 posted on 01/26/2025 3:45:01 AM PST by The Truth Will Make You Free ( )
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To: MinorityRepublican
Ms. Behr, 59

I think I see the problem here.

53 posted on 01/26/2025 3:53:39 AM PST by Sirius Lee ("Never argue with a fool, onlookers may not be able to tell the difference.")
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To: Alas Babylon!
Reminds me of Family Ties, A sitcom of the 1980s.

Loved that show! Alex was kind of a role model in my mid teen years. Took like in a little different direction later in life.


54 posted on 01/26/2025 3:58:21 AM PST by Sirius Lee ("Never argue with a fool, onlookers may not be able to tell the difference.")
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To: MinorityRepublican

Pretty sure that this is a Jewish family......too bad the parents haven’t realized that the DEMOCRAT PARTY HATES JEWS!


55 posted on 01/26/2025 4:04:46 AM PST by Ann Archy (Abortion....... The HUMAN Sacrifice to the god of Convenience.)
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To: MinorityRepublican

Ahh, Portland Oregon, wasn’t that home to the mostly peaceful protests? She’s upset that her son relies on facts and not feelings.


56 posted on 01/26/2025 4:10:38 AM PST by shoff (Vote Democrat it beats thinking!)
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To: MinorityRepublican

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57 posted on 01/26/2025 4:51:28 AM PST by sauropod (Make sure Satan has to climb over a lot of Scripture to get to you. John MacArthur Ne supra crepidam)
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To: rellic
Same here. One question I asked my lovely wife on our first date 40 years ago..."Are you a Conservative?"

I still remember the smile and the light in her eyes.

58 posted on 01/26/2025 4:53:00 AM PST by Bloody Sam Roberts (Perfection is impossible. But if you pursue perfection...you may achieve excellence.)
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To: MinorityRepublican

That’s not something I need to worry about. My kids are all MAGA


59 posted on 01/26/2025 5:02:42 AM PST by cyclotic (Don’t be part of the problem. Be the entire problem)
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To: Billthedrill

” ... a doctrinaire mother who can’t think beyond the bilge her newspaper vomits out ... “

I like the way you write. Excellent sentence.


60 posted on 01/26/2025 5:03:06 AM PST by KingLudd
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