My wife and I have been married 44 years. Whenever we have a fight, it’s nothing new.
It’s usually a repeat of an argument we may have had 20-30 years ago. We are too insync now to have current fights.
The best fights are those where one of you realizes how patently stupid is the argument, then says just the right thing.
“That is just so stupid.”
“Well, you know Bob, it’s not as stupid as you trying to cook dinner.”
…and both of you crack up and make up.
There appears to be merit in what you say. We seldom argue, but when we do, one side or the other just shuts up. It’s hard to have an argument if you are the only one speaking. It works for us, and today is our 56th anniversary.
Same here. Repeat of the same arguments we had 50-60 years ago!
"But I wanna watch The Jackie Gleason Show!"
"We watched it last week. Now it's time to watch The Outer Limits!"
Regards,