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I found out my boyfriend had 3 other girlfriends. Then I became friends with the other women. [130 "smart" women all thought they were this guy's only romantic partner]
Business Insider via Yahoo ^ | August 2, 2024 | Kelly Burch

Posted on 08/03/2024 1:22:48 PM PDT by grundle

I met my ex on a dating app in 2020. I was ready to settle down, and he seemed to be too, so things got serious quickly. We bought a dog and picked out an engagement ring.

Then, it all fell apart when I learned he had three other girlfriends, all of whom thought they were exclusive with him.

I have a doctoral degree in public health, specializing in social and behavioral sciences. I'm a smart person, so I blamed myself for missing the signs — though even in retrospect, I couldn't see any.

Almost immediately, I realized there were only a few other people who could understand what I was going through: My ex's other girlfriends.

First, I told the three other women my ex had been seeing at the same time as me. All were very shocked, and none of them knew that he had been cheating on them. When I found out he'd cheated on previous partners, I messaged them, too. All in all, I got in touch with about 130 women.

All of the girlfriends were kind, compassionate, and smart. Most were Asian, like me, and professionals: lawyers, engineers, and artists.

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TOPICS: Miscellaneous
KEYWORDS: dating; dumbsmart; exsothergirlfriends; extinctionevent; ifoundhim; manosphere; men; missinggod; pua; redpill; smartdumb; vdsrus; women
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To: Organic Panic

Exactly. And you got exactly the asking price that you presented.


101 posted on 08/03/2024 5:11:15 PM PDT by Bigg Red (Trump will be sworn in under a shower of confetti made from the tattered remains of the Rat Party.)
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To: MayflowerMadam

I would hope most people don’t need a life coach to know revenge is not an admirable trait.


102 posted on 08/03/2024 5:14:07 PM PDT by alternatives?
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To: alternatives?

Handsome is nice but is by no means essential.


103 posted on 08/03/2024 5:16:14 PM PDT by Bigg Red (Trump will be sworn in under a shower of confetti made from the tattered remains of the Rat Party.)
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To: MeneMeneTekelUpharsin

Yep. Too much to ask of so many of today’s slutty women.


104 posted on 08/03/2024 5:17:12 PM PDT by Bigg Red (Trump will be sworn in under a shower of confetti made from the tattered remains of the Rat Party.)
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To: T.B. Yoits
No one deserves anyone.

That cannot be repeated enough times.

105 posted on 08/03/2024 5:17:18 PM PDT by Tolerance Sucks Rocks (FBI out of Florida!)
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To: grundle

Here's some background music for this thread:   "You're The One In A Million"     (song link)

106 posted on 08/03/2024 5:30:51 PM PDT by Songcraft
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To: grundle

It would be easy to be rude about this woman, but the experience shows the results of a society with too many weak men that influence weak-thinking in others.


107 posted on 08/03/2024 5:41:56 PM PDT by Montana_Sam (Truth lives.)
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To: CottonBall

Disillusionment and lousy marriages.


108 posted on 08/03/2024 6:13:04 PM PDT by Jim W N (MAGA by restoring the Gospel of the Grace of Christ (Jude 3) and our Free Constitutional Republic!)
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To: grundle

109 posted on 08/03/2024 6:16:34 PM PDT by Kenny Bania (Ovaltine? Why not call it Roundtine?)
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To: Jonty30

“When you keep your selection of mates small, he gets to play the field.”

The dating apps have revealed the data. Women are swiping on less than 10% of the men, so they’re all after the same guys.


110 posted on 08/03/2024 6:22:26 PM PDT by rxh4n1 ( )
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To: CottonBall

It takes time to be a professional at anything. A doctor takes 8 years. A lawyer takes like 7 years. Etc.

Once a woman has become a professional, she’s older and having to compete with younger chicks who don’t desire a professional degree but want to find a husband.

Consequently, to up her game, she has to give more and accept less. He probably, in many cases, did little more be well dressed and be willing to watch tv for the evening. She had to accept his terms in order to get anything from him at all.


111 posted on 08/03/2024 6:36:08 PM PDT by Jonty30 (Genghis Khan did not have the most descendants. His father had more. )
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To: ChildOfThe60s

He didn’t need it for his head above the shoulders, so he had some to spare.


112 posted on 08/03/2024 6:37:08 PM PDT by Jonty30 (Genghis Khan did not have the most descendants. His father had more. )
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To: vetvetdoug

As I recall, the Koran says 4 wives is OK...5 is a sin.


113 posted on 08/03/2024 6:40:45 PM PDT by scrabblehack
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To: All

“I know I am just one of 130, but am I in top ten?”

“Top 100 for sure, baby.”


114 posted on 08/03/2024 7:01:22 PM PDT by Peter ODonnell (A conspiracy theory is usually a fact that a leftist cannot endorse)
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To: Montana_Sam

You need to spend some time in family court.


115 posted on 08/03/2024 7:40:48 PM PDT by alternatives?
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To: Farmerbob

Yeah he dodged a bullet big time. She’s obsessed.


116 posted on 08/03/2024 7:46:42 PM PDT by vmpolesov
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To: Jonty30

sounds pitiful


117 posted on 08/03/2024 8:17:10 PM PDT by CottonBall (Trump is not a politician or statesmn-he is a founding father, separated frm the others by 250 years)
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To: Jim W N

Sorry, I’m not following


118 posted on 08/03/2024 8:18:30 PM PDT by CottonBall (Trump is not a politician or statesmn-he is a founding father, separated frm the others by 250 years)
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To: CottonBall

They were lied to.


119 posted on 08/03/2024 8:21:57 PM PDT by Jonty30 (Genghis Khan did not have the most descendants. His father had more. )
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To: CottonBall

Basically, the women have built a fantasy life that they think they could have had with Chad. However, because Chad rejected them, they have to settle for Beta. The woman can’t let go of their fantasy and they are always critical of their now husband.

The beta is a nice guy, but he can’t experience truly being loved through his life. He was mostly celibate before he married and he is often celibate within the marriage, because she can’t bond with him.


120 posted on 08/03/2024 8:25:19 PM PDT by Jonty30 (Genghis Khan did not have the most descendants. His father had more. )
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