I grew up in a family where genealogy was a very big deal. I’ve always thought it was kind of silly - how do you know it’s true? It seemed to me that it’s only ever as true as the women were honest.
The culture and tradition that are passed down aren’t ‘silly’ at all, though.
Yeah, prior to DNA testing, documentation is all we had, and even when there's a marriage record, not everyone is a fanatic about that. Also, I've found that other people doing the same lines find stuff I'd never heard of before (one of the sibs was born to the second wife, who only lasted a year before my grandcestor was widowed a second time), and there's also even less savory events that didn't get recorded. One of my cousins ran into a foundling ancestor who was a young child sitting crying on a late middle ages battlefield, and someone from the winning side scooped him up and raised him as his own.
Genealogists now add DNA matching to their profiles. It's very accurate. And yes, it does expose women who were being dishonest.
One thing always missing from these family tree diagrams is the mailman, or the milk man, or the traveling salesman.
Infidelity was just as present then, as now.
How do you know its true?
My Mother got me stared and I computerized all her records.
My sources for genealogy include census data combined with birth, death, and marriage certificates, divorce decrees, WWI and WWII draft cards, newspaper clippings of engagements, marriage, birth announcements, obituaries, cemetery records, and personal histories related by family members. I manage my data in Family Tree Maker and maintain a family tree on Ancestry.com. My resources include Newspapers.com, Findagrave.com, and a small library of books I’ve collected over the years. You cross reference everything.
It addictive and I’m meeting lots of family members in my retirement years.