It’s a two way street.
Men think they are owed super models for girlfriends and don’t even want to look at women who aren’t.
You’re projecting again.
Men look for a woman who’s “hood enough” and if she stays as she is, he’ll be content. Men do not tend to monkey-branch nor trade up.
Nor do Men suffer from alpha widow syndrome, turning down plenty of mates who would be just fine while pining for thar one-night-stand or fling, who never was going to, nor will ever, tie the knot with her.