You’re projecting again.
Men look for a woman who’s “hood enough” and if she stays as she is, he’ll be content. Men do not tend to monkey-branch nor trade up.
Nor do Men suffer from alpha widow syndrome, turning down plenty of mates who would be just fine while pining for thar one-night-stand or fling, who never was going to, nor will ever, tie the knot with her.
I hate “otto-corrupt”.
Good enough not hood enough.