Women are the gatekeepers of sex not men. Fact is 90 % of women only sleep with 10% of the men who are considered top tier. They also go for the bad boy thugs .
Women tingle for “bad boys” ot the aggressive, confident types.
The woman decides that if she throws her body at him, he’ll notice what a special catch she is, because she’s breaking all thevrules just for *him*.
Then, when that doesn’t work, her rationalization hamster decides he’s a damaged little boy, and just needs a”good woman’s” love (hers) and she can “fix him.”
When that doesn’t work snd he throws her away. she cuts her hair short and declares “all men are bad.”
If she’d just tried this strategy with one oof those boring Steady Freddies, he’d move mountains for her.
But instead, she marries one of them at age 30, when the hawt men no longer hit on her, and then divorces Jim after a few years and a kid or two. to go “find herself.”
BS.
If men behaved like civilized men instead of alley cats, and didn't try to take advantage of women to satisfy their lusts, women wouldn't have to be the *gatekeepers* of sex.
That is blame shifting plain and simple.